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BM Waving Sugar Daddy in BF's Face

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Submitted by helena_brass on Wed, 03/30/2011 - 12:18pm

I'm so sick of how BM tries to have her BF buy the kids. I chose not to attend the Sunday T-ball game because I didn't want to interact with BM. Well, BM's BF and his whole entourage (there's about four young guys he works with who follow him around everywhere) were at the game. BF explained to me that FSD wanted a snack. All they had at the snack-bar was candy and soda. He got her a pack of Starbursts. BM gave him a dirty look and said something rude about it. BF told FSD that she could only eat two, then maybe she could have some after dinner, so she had two and BF put the rest away. Well BM's BF comes along and buys FSD a large bag of gummy worms; BM acts like he has given the child gold and says nothing about her devouring the whole bag. Really?

This kind of thing happens a lot. BM's BF bought FSS a quad for his birthday; he was turning 4. She likes to rub it in BF's face that her new boyfriend can afford these kinds of luxuries; hello, BF is paying YOUR RENT you witch. Let's see your new boyfriend take on that responsibility. I don't see him asking you to marry him.

I'm sorry, I'm highly annoyed with BM today. She's been urging BF to take out a loan in MY name so that the loan will no longer be in her name. Um, NO. That is not my responsibility and how DARE you try to dictate MY finances??? It's BF's responsibility, and he's working on it. This just pissed me off to no end. They have a problem with the bike; they need to deal with it. It's not my problem. BF and I aren't married.

Further rant about BM's BF: He's so dirty!!! BM's brother used to work with the guy and tell her all the gross things he did. He screwed hookers in alleys for crying out loud! BM used to abhor the guy and say how disgusting he was. WTF? He has a history of arrests for belligerent inebriation, and his own kids were taken away from him for child abuse. The guys that follow him around are younger than me--real mature crowd there. Oh, but he has money. What a winner.

Ugh. I hope the kids see through him as they get older. I hope he and his friends don't horribly influence FSS.

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Submitted by uncommon on Wed, 03/30/2011 - 12:33pm

Wow, um, the last two paragraphs were the most important. I certainly hope this man isn't living with the step kids. If so, I would be taking that woman to court. Not okay.

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Submitted by helena_brass on Wed, 03/30/2011 - 12:43pm

Well I guess there are some limitations to BM's delusions about the guy. She doesn't seem to leave the kids alone with him much, from what BF and I can glean. They don't live together. I personally think this is because the guy doesn't want to responsibility/hassle of dealing with the kids all the time. He has a nice, roomy house of his own, but BM doesn't live with him. I'm fairly certain that she'd jump on it if he asked.

When BF found out about the child abuse charges he went ballistic. They guy is a lot older though, so the charges are from over fifteen years ago. His kids are grown now, and they seem to hang around him and his posse at his shop (he does special order enhancements to vehicles).