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after years, the call finally came...ah, poor BM is distraught over her child...she's gay?

herewegoagain's picture

Ah, so since his daughter was 9-10 she's had a cell phone...since she was 11-12 she's been allowed to have boyfriends, go out, dress like a #%$#% and fail school over and over again...in all of this time, DH has tried numerous times to get the witch ex-wife to do something, and what she did do was more and more stop communication between him and his child...

So NOW she calls today...she's all upset because boyfriend #30 (within the past year) of his daughter...who is 15 has now told her that he saw her at the mall or something with a girl and that she's gay! Oh my...so after years of hiding everything from DH, telling my DH there was nothing wrong with her giving her all this freedom, with her having boyfriends and french kissing at 12, she is now distraught and calls him because she's confronted her and she's gay? hahaha! Of course, she also had to tell him "your nephew is also, so she must've gotten it from your side of the family"

My wonderful husband's response was "I don't give a rats behind if she's gay...I'd rather her be gay that a SLU...! You complain about her being gay when you have allowed her to have boyfriends, smooch, dress like a hoochie, fail school since she was 11yrs old? You must be kidding!" Of course, the witch was all upset that he didn't give a rats behind and hung up on him...

So while she thought she was straight, and she failed school, had a new boyfriend every week, posted "sexy" pics of herself on myspace, boys commented on her pics as "take of that shirt so I can see your t..." she never took away the computer or the cell phone...now she's gay and she's taken the computer & cell phone away and she's grounded and can't go out...gotta love it...

What a shame my DH didn't tell her, "I'd rather she be gay than a SL... like your mother and the women in your family..." Geez...and no, that's not me talking, that is what everyone in the neighborhood where her mother and her lived still say...

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October8's picture

I am not sure it's illegal for teens to have be part of a social network.

I do think that if your SD is gay you guys need to be there for her and supportive. Especially since it sounds like the BM is not taking up that role.

One can only hope!

Angel37's picture

Can you give me a link to this law, please?

“Every truth has two sides; it is as well to look at both, before we commit ourselves to either”~Aesop

herewegoagain's picture

Believe me we have called CPS since she was 11 and her mother allowed her myspace page, etc...tried to work with myspace, nothing...CPS...nothing...

I have already told my DH to call her immediately...mind you, she now has no cell phone (not that he could call her before on her cell) and they have no home phone...so I told him to call BM as many times as it takes for her to answer and let him speak to her...sigh...

My DH is a great guy, so I know he will be supportive of her if this is indeed the case...he does not support her failing school, smooching with every guy that walks by, dressing like a hoochie...which of course, BM saw no problem with...go figure...

It should be interesting...but I do worry with crazy BMs reaction she'll get no support...have a feeling this is one of those deals that with her chauvinist husband will bring lots of problems and when she says "my hubby comes first, now you take her...hmmm" we'll see...

Flying.Purple.Step.Monster's picture

When you sign up for myspace and facebook it says you have to be of a certain age but the kids just lie when they sign up.