I was thinking this morning on the way to work, my H is a crappy Dad but one heck of a roommate to his kids. SS18 now has 7 tardies and two absences in 3.5 weeks of school. SD17 has two tardies and now strolls in at 11:00 every weeknight. She comes in, drops her book bag and goes to her boyfriend's house. When I ask H why was SS late to school again, his response "I don't know but I'll find out." And this morning, I say "I guess SD thinks her new curfew is 11:00" he then ask what time she got home and I said 11:00! His response "I'll get her."

The truth is he will say nothing, he will do nothing and they know it. They admitted the ONLY reason they choose to live with him is becasue its "easy." They told SD26 this and she told us.

SS18 mows the grass when he made to, still has NO job and is on my insurance and I pay his truck note. SD17 does NOTHING. After two years she says now that when she has to vaccum it stirs up her allergies so she can't di ut anymore. Her room is a garbage dump and I pick up their bathroom every day just so it won't be the 2nd garbage dump! They get money every weekend for doing NOTHING.

So, he is one heck of a roommate to those two because he sure isn't a damn father!