Soo I pick up dd14 at youth grp tonite. She tells me she knows something about ss and should she tell me? Well, yeah. She said he asked a kid at school to get him some " chew" and then told the kid that he smoked weed while at his last school ( while with mil). DD has known this boy since she was 5. This boy went directly to my dd and told her- ss was looking at them across the classroom as he was telling dd. Just in case my dd decided not to tell, ss came home and immediately told my ds12 what he said. It boggles mind why he would go to one of dd's friends and say this and Then just to make sure he tells ds12 about it? So I did tell dh who basically said if he wants to sit in his room forever I guess that's up to him. To add icing to the cake he has tried to come out of his room numerous times( we did let him go to youth grp tonight), he was singing at the top of his lungs, I asked him to please be quiet to which he responded " why"- I said because I asked you to- to which he replies "so what everyone else gets to talk but me"- I might add that noone else was talking at all and so I simply said, " yes, that's exactly right"- he then went to his room, slammed the door and screamed. I'm not sure what his point is? He just acts so ridiculous. I sat upstairs and within 30 seconds of going downstairs he is low crawling thru the hallway- I'm at the bottom of the stairs just staring at him. He tries to play it off and said he was getting a towel out of the closet- ummm- you already passed the closet- why are you still crawling thru the hall?