SS14 moved in with inlaws last month. Dh just heard a few days ago that ss will be attending our school district. Previously when he lived with inlaws he chose to go out of district. Then he moved in with us and of course went to our school. So now we know he is staying. Have some mixed feelings about this. He is in the same grade as my dd14 and a year older than ds13. On one hand, I wish he'd go out of district so we can just eliminate any sort of issues with the kids, but on the other hand I want him to go wherever it is easiest for the inlaws so they will keep him When he went out of district they were driving him back and forth each way and I m sure that added up to a lot of time and money.

Although-after not speaking to dh for 3 weeks-he is already asking if dh can get ahold of his schedule. I already know the kid's schedule for next year as I am the one that gets online and checks that sort of thing and ss14 knows it. I also dont like that aspect of things-I feel like we will end up being asked to assist with various things since my kids go to school there. And I dont want to. I already know there is some sort of high school orientation coming up in a couple of weeks. At this point I plan on saying nothing about it to dh or certainly not ss or mil. I figure if she has taken over his care it is really up to her to figure these sorts of things out.

My dd14 asked him the other day if he would be upset if she asked to have her locker placed away from ss's. It would normally be right next to hers due to the same last name-I was really surprised that he said "no" he would be fine with that-that if she and ss want to leave each other alone it was fine with him and he sees no reason to get involved unless they are doing something wrong to one another.