Ok this is just one minor irritation and I have such bigger issues with ss but sometimes it's the little stuff that pushes me over the edge. I have a cell phone- it's mine. Dh has a phone. It's his. Now I admit that dh has been having some problems with his phone so his service has been a bit spotty- however I still manage to contact him that way.

Ss on the other hand is using my phone to contact his dad. He will leave messages on MY voicemail that all begin with " dad" "hey dad" or some sort of variation. Never- hi, hismibeandours I was trying to get a hold
of dad but can't reach him on his phone- can u give him a message? I realize thisis a small thing, but he acts like I don't exist in my own home, now I don't even exist on my own phone or voicemail? So I simply delete them and move on. There never any sort of emergency- just usually wanting something dh to do something or buy him something or whatever.

Ok that's all just my daily irritation.