We had a pleasant weekend with SD and it is "week on" this week. However, she brought up the dog situation again and thinks that if we get her a dog, she can just take it between our house and BM's and BM will just "learn to get used to it" like the cellphone. SD claims that since she just "started taking the phone to BM's", BM just gave in. She was told that dogs are not objects and that it does not work that way. She was also told that when she starts feeding and walking our dogs twice a day for a year, it will be an OPTION but we all know that won't happen.

Also, she was told on Friday to bring ALL of the things she needs for the week. She has been taking a duffel bag between the houses for her new clothes because she has only been wearing those. DH bought her at least 3 Nightmare Before Xmas t-shirts/ long sleeves online (her fave movie) and yes, she wears long sleeves and sweaters in the summer. We were at Target yesterday getting new dog toys and I asked her if she needed anything for our house- socks/ undies/ bra, etc. The answer was no. This morning, I hear her ask DH if they can go to BM's tomorrow to get 'all' of her undershirts. She has at least 4 here but just refuses to take initiative to do her laundry. 

I text DH and ask what colors she needs because I'll just buy her some more so he doesn't have to go to BM's for something so trivial. It'll only be $10. He said she just needs black and white undershirts. I just find it annoying that SD is TOLD to bring everything then ASKED if she needed anything for our house and can't take 2 seconds to actually think about it and plan for herself. THIS is exactly why she can't have her own dog.