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BM says FDH needs to let her know where SD is at all times because they have joint decision making?

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Submitted by Integ95 on Fri, 05/18/2012 - 7:12pm

I'm pretty sure joint decision making has to do with medical, religion, and school. But i think she has become a control freak and won't stay out of our lives.
SD is going to my brothers house to spend time with my niece this weekend and we refused to give BM a phone number because my family don't want the drama. Apparently we have to tell BM where SD is and why she is staying there. I think she is full of shit and needs to stop trying to control our lives. So once again FDH is going to ignore her email because it is so ridiculous.
I had to call FDH at work to read him this email and i wanted to reply but he didn't because it would start an email war. I think that is a wise choice on his part. SMDH

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Submitted by Integ95 on Fri, 05/18/2012 - 7:20pm

LOL this bitch just pisses me off to no end. I think she needs a life. Guess we have more evidence for modification.

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Submitted by sonja on Fri, 05/18/2012 - 7:48pm

Yeah I bet she doesnt communicate SDs whereabouts when shes with her! We had this argument too, CO says that the other parent gets 1st choice when the parent with her cant keep her. HA, BM has left the state and left SD with her mother instead of calling FDH.

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Submitted by Integ95 on Fri, 05/18/2012 - 7:55pm

In FDH court order there is no 1st choice BM lives 2 states away.When SD is at BM house EOWE she says its none of our business what goes on there. What a contradicting bitch.

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Submitted by stepmomto3bioto1 on Sat, 05/19/2012 - 1:57am

Oh no! Shut that down. Dont respond to her requests on this stuff. Shes being a pain in your butts & um, she knows it!!! I agree, I 100% bet that when skid is on her time, she doesnt send an email/text to you guys with the persons name,address & phone number of where your skid is 100% of the time!!

Shes manipulating the decree to make it to what suits her best!!! Controlling/ causing drama is all that is!! Shut her down by NOT responding at all. Your DH made a smart move on this one.

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Submitted by smdh on Sat, 05/19/2012 - 9:27am

BMs tend to think that their "wanting" something means we all have to comply. Dh will always tell me when he gets an email demand from McCrazy. My response (to him) is always the same "she can want all she wants" and then we ignore.