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When you try to control my house and my son you will get shut down!!!

Integ95's picture

So BM called to talk to SD last night. While they were talking BS2 asked his dad if he could watch TV. FDH says yes and turns it on. Well FDH keeps SD on speakerphone due to PAS in the past. And we hear BM say i can't hear you because of your brother he needs to be quiet. I gave FDH a look and he whispered "hold on" to me. So i didn't say anything. He took the phone ended the conversation. He told BM "you do not control my child or my house". BS2 did not yell or scream he used a regular tone when asking. While BM was still yelling over the phone about random stuff i told him to hang up and he did.
BM kept calling and calling for half an hour. She is really on a power trip lately. We ignored her like we been doing.
It took all i had not to jump through that phone and rip the lips of her face. Who in the hell is she to say my son cant say anything while she is on the phone to SD? I had my niece and BS here screaming last week and she didn't say anything then.

I OFFICIALLY THINK WE HAVE A CRAZY BM ON OUR HANDS NOW!!

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overworkedmom's picture

Good for FDH!!! I think it would have been tough to not say anything but you showed great restraint and are the sane one!!

Integ95's picture

Thanks i like to think I'm sane after all this BS. My thinking is she is losing control over her own life or she is worried about the upcoming modification. So she is trying to get control of anything she thinks she can.

Integ95's picture

Yeah i could have seen if my son was screaming but all her did was ask a question in a normal tone. When he does get to screaming i try to calm him down or take him in another room. But for some reason the past week BM thinks she runs my house and our lives and its really pissing me off.
I do feel for you and your DH. Not being able to see the kids has to be hurtful. Sorry!