let me start by saying thanks to all the help y'all have given me from my last blog.
Also let me say that im not as angry and i am concerned for the SD. I think more then anything i am more scared cause i have been through a lot of bad things in life (as a young child)

When i seen her doing what she did made me get flashes of what i have been through. It scared me to think that it could be happing to her. I had a real long convo to the DH about what i have read and he seemed to be more willing to go to the BM to see whats going on. And he did say if we cant get to the bottom of this we are going to get the help for her (therapy)

Yes im angry that she was doing that to my child but when i look at the whole picture, im angry for her.

Thank you all for the helpful links..