My place
So,yesterday was great! Before x-mas I found out my my ss was failing a class in school. This is not like him. He was on honor roll last year. So, I talked to him about it and we came up with a plan to set a meeting up with his teacher and get him some xtra credit and I would help him get that grade up. He was all for it then. But in the morning when I told him I was going to call and set that up now-his attitude changed. I knew I was going to find out something I didn't want to when I called her. His grade is down because of missing assignments and half ass work. I called his father to tell him this and he said he would not be going to his mothers this weekend. The three of us were talking about this when his exwife shows up at my house to pick my sd up. She walks right into my house like she always does-without knocking and she does not leave. I feel uncomfortable and thinking the topic was done with until she left went upstairs. When I came down there was a nice little family talk going on without me between the three of them. My ss is bashing me infront of his bm and I am feeling like running and hiding. What would anyone else in this situation do?
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I did miss my chance cause I
I did miss my chance cause I walked away instead of letting her see me cry. But next time...I will be stronger!
I def hear what you are
I def hear what you are saying but he did call her tell her everything that was going on ealier in the day. bm has nothing to do with thier everyday lives. She lost them years ago and is now somehow trying to get her way in. I understand they are her kids but I have raised them longer then she has and to have her and her family now talking badly about me really hurts. She has never taken them to the doctor or the dentist she has never met with thier teachers she has never done anything for them but neglect and loose them. Maybe she really has changed but it is hard for me to believe that for the sake of the kids. She lives in filth. my sd has come home covered in flea bites that were bleeding by the time she got here. I try to stay out of things but when I am the one doing everything-should I have to? I am just so confused. I have bent over backwards for this woman in order for her to at least see her kids. I felt like she deserved a second chance but that all went to hell when the police called me over after they pulled her over and found she had no drivers license for the past 11 years. The car she was driving was leaking exhaust fumes in right under all of the kids(including her two week old baby). Since she had no license, I had to drive everyone home. I don't want anyone thinking that I have tried to shut her out of thier lives but every time I try to open the door a little more-I get kicked in the teeth.
I think that is exactly what
I think that is exactly what I am going to do,Is1998. It just hurts alot. I can't trust her to really handle things and my H works 16 hrs a day,6 days a week. So, you see, it really is just me and the kids. It always has been. But I guess it is time for a change. I can't walk around here on eggshells waiting for the next shoe to drop. If her intent is to turn them against me-then so be it. It will be a lot less stress when all is said and done. They want to be with her and who am to stand in the way of that?