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2 weeks without a BIG meltdown. time to start over

jstorie's picture

Sd15....

Im so frustrated I could scream...

We may have went two weeks without a HUGE meltdown. lots of smaller ones but none that revert back to terrible two's till today...Let me start from a couple weeks ago...

Sd shit her pants when she had the stomach bug;hid her stuff in her dirty laundry basket; i told her everyday to wash it; she didn't; after a week and 2 days i threw her whole damn hamper in the garbage can and gave her a stern lecture that she is not going to make me and my children sick. that if she has to do her laundry more than so be it. i gave her multiple chances.

Today she had school after being out on spring break. she decided she was going to wear dirtyn clothes. I said no. I told her change back into what you are wearing it is not my problem you are too lazy to wash your clothes. you knew you should have last night.

It was a fight. She got swats from her dad from being rude. and throwingn a fit. it went on for over thirty mins. I even made her go outside becuase i wasn't going to listen to one more miniute of it.

I really don't know if this child has got PROBLEMS. or whether she is a spoiled brat.

My question for you guys... if its close to her period can that be whats causing these outbreaks? i know it messes with hormones. could it go this far. where shes screaming and bawling and throwing her self down.

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Jsmom's picture

Sounds like mental illness. My SD18 is bi-polar and that started at 13. The screaming fits were unreal. She needs to see someone.

jstorie's picture

Yeah she has been in 3 mental hospitals and 1 theraputic girls home she was diagnosed bipolar and adhd at the first but the 2nd and 3rd said she didn't have it that she could control herself and put on a show.

BarkAtTheMoon's picture

My SD19 still has fits and screams, even curled up on the floor two Thanksgivings ago when she was 18-1/2. It's not all of the time, but she is old enough to control herself! She is our little drama queen.

DH just admitted to me yesterday that he wants SD19 to go back to counseling, to a REAL counselor this time, because she is losing her marbles. I say SD19 is ODD for sure and possibly NPD and BPD. PMS, my ass. Some of these skids are bonkers!

Good suggestion from Ripley above to drag her to the ER. I have often wondered what DH and I would do if SD19 threw one of her fits again? ER visit would be a sure-fire way t get her closer to that padded room and out of my house. Hell, I would even call the ambulance for her. }:) Right now she just wants to keep crying to DH. I keep reminding him that she'll be 20 in a few months. TWENTY.

~ Moon

jstorie's picture

Oh hell... i could not make it to twenty. she is out as soon as she drops out or graduates ....well she will be twenty if that happens....