Blah!! Not knowing is eating me up!
I am trying to play it cool y'all. I really am!! No one knows how crazy my head is actually spinning.
Our lawyer texted me yesterday and told me that he spoke to BM's lawyer and BM's lawyer supposedly called BM right then and there and told her that she needed to follow the CO or he was going to recuse himself from her case. Those are big words. I am not sure if that actually happened or not but it is what was said between attorney's.
I am actually starting to think he is really going to show up. I can't imagine the guilt and the crying and the theatrics that are going on in BM's house right now. How DH is soooooo terrible and that Christmas is forever ruined and "Don't worry about me going to jail, you just do what you feel is right in your heart" and whatever else she can do to further mind F the kid before he get's on the plane.
Pray or good vibe or whatever you got that is positive my way please- That SS15 turns back into that kid that I loved. That he is a kind person to his brother and my bios. That he actually takes this chance to re-establish his relationship with his dad. 18 hrs until we know for sure what is happening, because as usual BM still won't respond to DH.
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My thoughts and prayers are
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Your BM is top-notch lunatic. Hopefully SS gets on the plane and is civil. If not, escape with your kids and try to enjoy the holidays.
Big hugs!
Sending positive vibes and
Sending positive vibes and love your way. Take deep breaths and try your best not to stress about the outcome. I know this is difficult and the whole manipulation involved is draining. Focus on your holiday and how special it will be-with or without SS.
My hope is that he comes to you all and by some miracle he will see just how much he is truly loved, regardless of what his mother says and does.
Chin up and regardless of what happens do not allow it to ruin your holiday.
For your sake, I hope he does
For your sake, I hope he does come, because I think it will be an enjoyable visit and a break from the madness (though it won't be the end of it). Good for BM's attorney for not protecting her and letting her get away with this behavior.
I know it would be a good
I know it would be a good thing if he actually showed up and DH was able to get some real time with him to try and talk, but I still think he won't.
If BM takes him to the airport and he refuses to get out of the car, or get on the plane, what else can she do. I still think what your friend told you is true. Are they going to arrest a teenage boy and put him in jail? No, could they do that to the BM, god I hope so. But I think they are both still hinging it all on "Your honor I tried so hard and he would not get out of the car!"