DH's cousin is getting married next month in the same state as SSstb14. We thought about it and decided that we just couldn't make it work with SS18's new therapist schedule and him trying to find a job, DDstb11 and DS12 just starting school, I am out of vacation time for the year, yadda yadda yadda. No biggie. Well, DH had an idea last night and asked if I would be upset if he went alone (of  course not!!). 

The wedding lines up perfectly with SSstb14's parent teacher conferences and a football game (that the kid with Elhor's-Danlos has -- insert eyeroll!)! I wish I could be there now for BM's face when DH strolls into the conferences!! Ahhhh... that is amazing. DH is going to make a week of it and when BM refuses to let DH see SS it will be just something else in the up coming court hearing! The school was super helpful again this year and is emailing me the schedules for the conferences. Hehehe!