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What part of we quit don't you understand?

justmakingthebest's picture

I had to call our lawyer again yesterday. BM still hasn't produced her financials that were subpoenaed before court back at the beginning of May. Lawyer asked when SS was coming out for summer, I told him. He asked if we thought he would show, I said no. He started going on about "well if he doesn't just call and I will get the next hearing-" I cut him off and snapped at him. WE ARE DONE. That is what we told you when we left the last trial. That is what we have told you in every e-mail. WE ARE DONE. I just need you to do YOUR job and get her financials and figure out what CS is, if the judge is going to claim we still owe alimony (even though we have documentation we over paid substantially) and how far back this is going to be retro'ed. I need it to end.

I told him that SS21 wants to drive and we need to look at a car for him. My BS is going to be driving soon and we need to get him one (the one we thought we were getting fell through). We are sitting on our savings and afraid to do anything because of BM. I just need him to end it. What part of that is so hard???  

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Aniki-Moderator's picture

But then Lawyer won't make any more money!! Sheesh. I'm sorry, JMTB. *give_rose*

advice.only2's picture

Bingo! That's what I was thinking, if he keeps dragging this out he has at least another year of getting paid.

NotYourAverageStepMama's picture

But sadly, the lawyer wants you to do another hearing so he gets more money and if you are done then no more money for him.

Im sorry this is still going on for you!

ICanMakeIt's picture

Being direct and saying this is the only thing that finally ended the nightmare of BM dragging out her and DH's divorce. Our lawyer was ethical, but hers was not in any way shape or form. My DH told his lawyer after the 9th (NINTH) modification that he was DONE we would just go to trial. This was after nearly a year of witholding the kids from him.

DH literally told his DH to cancel all future phone calls with BM lawyer and just get ready for trial. Funny enough it was done within 2 months of that email.Signed Sealed Delivered. 

I don't know how much longer before you know about your SS showing up for Summer, but I hope it ends ASAP for you guys. Its been a long arduous road, and I'm rooting for you guys to start the road to recovery once it is done. 

WalkOnBy's picture

JFC, how frustrating! 

I, too, am sorry that this is still going on for you.