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JustNix's picture

So last time i posted things were pretty bad, I still haven't moved back in but i do spend most nights there. It's been 3 weeks and it's a world of difference. My BF doesn't have contact with Biomom at all, Biomom has been sticking to the court ordered schedule with no drama with that. But come to find out last weekend that she has not been buying this almost 2 year old no nothing. We buy the diapers cause she'll call when he's down to what ever can get him through the day and we'll go to costco and get the big box and send that over. So last weekend we found out Biomom hasn't bought SS new shoes so we sent him home in a new pair and she kept them and sent him back to us last night with no shoes on (my bf's mom picks up SS for us) Biomom told my BF's mom he only has one pair of shoes at her house so she's going to keep them there and we can send him in another pair or back in no shoes. We end up buying clothes and toys to send home with him because we know she's not doing anything. And to add to my rage at this women ( i don't even want to call her a women), although she has finished school for some medical nurse type position she refuses to get a job so she can stay on wellfare. I feel so bad for their son he has to live with her. But Biomom has a 7 year old daughter with another man that she gets to only see on sundays in a park for a few hours. It sucks the only reason she got custody of SS is because she had the dad arrested and put in jail when he was leaving her and when he got out everything was said and done.

Now a year and a half later my BF finally has seen the light and is staying away from her and putting a case together to go back to court with to get full custody of his son. I know it's going to be a long hard road but i told him i'm here for support for both him and his son. He told me good because he wants to build a good home for his son with me as his SM. All i could do was look at the both of them and smile. But gosh she is such a B****

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happy mom's picture

I like your last sentence, it made me laugh. Goodluck on your efforts to get custody. Let us know what happens. I'm sure we all feel the same way about the ex too.

-happy mom