I have been married to my husband for 22 years. We married when his son was 8 and his daughter was 6. We co parented every other weekend, holidays, and summer vacations. We have weathered many storms during these years with both children but I feel like we are once again in storm mode. My SD, who is a self proclaimed daddy's girl lived with us until age 25. Over those yards she worked off and on but would never keep a job long before quitting or getting fired. She would not clean her room, help around the house or contribute in anyway. My husband and I would argue over her constantly. Finally her dad told her it was was time to move out and be accountable for herself. We ended up taking her car because she could not make her payments to us as agreed upon when she left. She was very angry with me over the whole situation and blamed me, not her daddy. She told my husband's family that it was my fault about having to move out and the car being taken away. She talked to her daddy often and refused to talk to me. About 6 months ago she shows up pregnant and no where to go. Her daddy and I talked and he told her it was best that she not live with us but he would help her find a place and help her with rent. Next thing we know she moves in with her BM whom she has never got along with and is the very reason she came to live with us in the first place! She had a healthy son in February and the dad is in and out of their lives. She continues to live with her mom and manipulate her daddy into paying phone bill, paying her car insurance, and doing basically anything her heart desires. She is working but has no child care costs because family members and friends are providing that for her. We gave her car back to her with the agreement she would pay her car insurance. She is not even attempting to do that. She spends her money recklessly on herself and we end up buying things the baby needs. She has the mentality of a 13 year old and raising a baby. My husband enables her constantly and she plays him against me every chance she gets. I love that baby more than anything in this world. My husband says he does what he does because of the baby. She tells family that she can get what she wants because she is daddy's little girl! She still thinks it is all about her! She is so selfish and self centered that she doesn't even comprehend that it should be all about her son! She is a drama queen and stirs up sh** all the time, on a daily basis. I don't know if I have the strength to weather another storm! I need some serious advice from those who may have experienced something like this. Please...someone out there help me. I am drowning!