I saw his txt messages from last night with BM2 about pick up today. He had already told me that she wanted to meet him out near BM1's house instead of driving all the way here. He left out the part where she would be bringing her BF with her.

She KNOWS I am with FDH when we go to BM1's, because FDH works overnights on Friday and so I drive there Saturday morning. She KNOWS there is a protective order between her BF and I, so she says "We can meet at BK? I'll have BF with me but I'll just send him inside." Um, no. This is why she's always trying to meet FDH somewhere, she is supposed to drop SDstb5 at our house at noon, but if she does that she has to leave BF at home or at a gas station before our street. She's always either keeping SD late or offering her up early so she can meet FDH and have a good 'reason' for her BF to be with her.

If she drove up to my house with that shitball I would call the cops and they both know it. Last weekend she KNEW she would be dropping SD off to us at an outdoor event, her BF drove anyway, nobody told me he would be driving and be right-fucking-there! Now, I'm not so terrified that I can't be in the same store as him, and I don't think he is going to come out of that van and attack me at a town event. But he does show up in court for the renewals and complain about how often I run into him and I deliberately go to things I know he's involved in (drop offs).

 Soooo, when I saw the text, I couldn't help myself. I texted BM2 back on his phone 'If BF is within 50yds of K or S then he can be arrested, and K is getting pretty sick of him violating the PO. It was put in place so that she could go about her business without having to worry about him. It's there for things like this where they would both normally be there, he should be the one not going. But I guess since you can't stand being inconvenienced she won't be coming with me. You bring your BF so that you aren't lonely, K comes with me to be the driver, so that I am not driving our kid around on 3hours of sleep."

BM2 called and I don't know what was said but he seemed a bit mad. when he asked if I was coming with I said 'Nope, BF is going, I'm not. The only reason this happened so many times before is because you don't tell me. If you can't fix this you will be driving on your own every weekend." It's a 45min drive one way to SD7s house. He left all ticked off, but damn, can't he stand up for me even a little? there's a fucking PO!