Since being single I have discovered :

- My ex started seeing someone 2 weeks after 4 1/2 years of together and officially together for almost 4 years. This someone has a 4 year old son (keep in mind that this man as 6 children with two different women all 14 and under) 

- The 11 year old son started living there because his mom can't handle him. (he fights with everyone in the house) My ex lives 1.5 hours from his hometown and his father, my ex works a chaotic schedule with very long hours (approximately 12)

- He waited 6 weeks before introducing the kids to said single mom 

-The mother of the younger two children was going to let said new gf of my ex boyfriend watch her daughter for 50/50 custody despite the fact that my ex was dating her for 3 seconds at the time. (THESE PEOPLE ARE LITERALLY INSANE)

THE BEST PART which I'm leaving for last is that the 14 year old daughter is having s*x. I told him this would happen and that she needed help etc. He kept saying there was nothing he could do blah blah blah. The poor thing posts all over tiktok about how she knows her parents don't care about her specifically her mother and that she wishes she would get punished like her friends. It breaks my heart. She has videos saying she cuts herself, vapes and her 13 year old sister has tik toks of the 14 year old under the covers having s*x ON TIKTOK for everyone to see...... I sent a message to my ex saying I felt morally obligated to tell him about the cutting and he never responded.

SERIOUSLY THANK YOU GUYS. This is one of the worse situations I've ever observed. Meanwhile, I'm dating a really amazing, kind and thoughful man with zero children LOL.