My in-laws live 5 minutes away. We have them over for dinner every few weeks. Or should I say DH invites them to dinner...

I've asked him a million times to check with me first before inviting them. It's not a cooking thing- he does most of the cooking. But it's a time and space thing... When they come, he wants to make a mad dash to clean the house, and then they stay forever. We have dinner, then they want to linger over coffee during desert.

So he did it again! I'm still getting over being sick, he hasn't talked to the skids or to me about their issues while he was gone on his business trip. I have to get ready for work tomorrow... Sunday nights are crazy around here as everyone rushes to finish homework and get laundry done for the week. I really don't need this right now.

It's just another example of how my thoughts, feelings, time and opinions are not important. So I have 30 minutes to suck it up, and put a smile on.

Next time, I swear I'm gonna find an excuse to leave the house when he does this to me!