Fiance texted bm to tell her he will give her child support and asking when he can see his child. He told me this. I asked"so you got a court order now"?, he replied, "no". I said well no court order means she can still fuck you over and go to court to tell them you have not paid financially. He knows this but says he rather pay 400 now with no court order since we are broke than have her go to court for 835. I was pissed I told him then I will work weekends to have my money. He asked , it is not our money?. I told him no because not even our money is my money it's for your son's mother. He stayed quiet. She threatened to take his stimulus for her son, while fiance has our daughter who is still on formula. He then goes on about how I don't care about our daughter and his son's relationship, and how his son is an inconvenience to me, I am so bitter towards his bm I see her son as an inconvenience and he is not my family. He is not we are not married. I took care of him for 5 months for both of them. When he comes over his dad ignores him, does not play uno with him, cannot handle his adhd, and he expects me to not find him an inconvenience, I do not I find his parent an inconvenience since neither can handle him or take care of him well. I am so over it, i told him if he lets her treat him like an idiot I will too. I will go through the court and file cs. I'm done with him not thinking and bending over backward for her and told him I won't be here when she fucks you over in court. He doesn't even spend quality time with his son when he's here, but he misses him. Over it. He wont even tell him to brush his teeth take vitamins or shower in 3days. I have my bags packed and hope to leave to my dads next week since he is sick rn. I gotta ask for grocery money, clothes, but she gets it just for popping out a kid she doesn't even care for but for her 2 days off. He tells me he will find a weekend job, so i can be stuck with his kid more than him nope. Been stupid way too long.