The “Evil” Step Parent
Realizing I turned into that type of step mother when I:
- Thoroughly enjoyed weekends/holidays without those skids
- Felt relief to hear the phrase "them kids not coming over this weekend"
- Jumped for joy with his kids (BOTH of them at the same time) opted out of coming over
- Couldn't wait until they left on Sundays and got triggered if he extended their stay (because I was rarely informed or consulted)
- Anytime dude forgot his phone I purposely refused to retrieve it so that his ball n chains wouldn't interrupt my time with their non-stop calling over trivial sh*t
- I have purposely hidden his phone to avoid skids pinging him at inappropriate times
- Felt huge rush of dopamine saying NO (as a FINAL answer) when it required helping his ex wife get respite from her own kids.
- Felt not one ounce of guilt for feeling the way I feel....guilt riddled Disney dad has enough guilt for everyone lol!
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Not evil at all. Evil is what creates spawn like these.
You are the fairy Godmother in this Brothers Grim wart covered spawn and failed BioParent fairy tale.
Enjoy your wings, and twinkle on.
Not evil, just human. I
Not evil, just human. I literally cried when Spawn turned 18 and I knew everything was over. I no longer had to worry about court every 3-6 months, for CS for a meth addict to get her fix on my dime, for a spoiled toxic SD to invade my home and post it all over social media for her and her friends to laugh about. I bombarded my DH with text after text that day about our freedom and how elated I was. That was 8 years ago and my life has been so much more sane since then.