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Submitted by lilyofthevalley on Tue, 01/23/2007 - 11:32am

So anywayz things aren't getting much better...My bf's son is pushing him to the limit. Not listening, saying he will be home and doesnt' come home when he says...flunking 12th grade and not really seeming to care. HIs son cares only about his new gf and computer games...Constantly plugged in to the computer...it's so sad. My bf is so exhausted at night he can hardly deal with watching over him like a babysitter and I am so frustrated I feel the only answer is for them to find their own place to live and maybe I will have my sanity back. I've about had it with it all...Especially finding the used condoms in the hallway which my dog brought out from his room...talk about uggggggggggg, it's so disrespectful. Stop the Insanity!!

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Submitted by Steamed on Tue, 01/23/2007 - 12:11pm

Maybe we can get them to move in with each other and give us both some relief, LOL. Take a look at my blog, sounds just like my SS, anymore I am just getting fed up and setting my foot down, his mother doesn't like it much but I'm tired of him. There is some light at the end of my tunnel I hope, he is planning on going to a technical school about 4 hours away in a few months, I'm hoping that that will calm my situation down and make him grow up.

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Submitted by butterfli61@hot... (not verified) on Thu, 01/25/2007 - 12:06pm

Thank you for writing...I agree they should move in together....sounds like you are going through a lot like me...SS
s oyyyyy!!

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Submitted by happy on Tue, 01/23/2007 - 1:57pm

I would let him know that if he does not want to live by your rules that he can go. Your BF should understand.. I mean used Condoms.. That is so grouse..
PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN. He has no right to be that disrespectful to you, your home or your relationship with his dad.
Would you put up with that behavior from a friends child, niece? I bet not so tell him like it is. If he is "such a man" then he will find his own way. Or let him move in with his GF..
I would not stand for any of that.. (If the home I lived in right now was mine before me and hubby got married there is a lot I would put my foot down too)!!
My SS is was the same way. And he is 21.. I know how angry they can make you..
Do what I should have done.. STOP IT NOW BEFORE YOU CAN'T..

Smile.. or try too
Happy