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BM is getting married 12 years later to her dude that she had an affair with on DH.

livinthedream's picture

Submitted by livinthedream on Wed, 07/21/2010 - 6:54pm

Its been great to have no baby mama drama for the last six months ever since BM finally got her BF to marry her after 12 years of being divorced from DH. She met her BF in the church after his wifey died & left him with 6 kids. I find it so funny that its taken all these years for them to finally tie the knot. Its really funny that they have been living together before the wedding with some of the kids even tho BM made it crystal clear to us that we were the worst people on earth when we lived together before we got married many years ago. Its really ironic that BM is getting married on the same calendar date that we got married many years ago. BM finally got BF to marry her & buy her a house that didnt belong to his deceased wife. I cant help but wish them well & hope that they are happy & keep out of our lives.

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Submitted by zenjetset on Wed, 07/21/2010 - 7:43pm

it doesn't matter, move on. It's there life and you have yours. Let it be. Everything happens for a reason.

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Submitted by Jsmom on Thu, 07/22/2010 - 8:36am

The date may be a coincidence, I wouldn't read anything into it. The reason it may have taken so long may have been the BF. Widowed with 6 kids. I was with one and that was hell. I can't imagine 6. Sounds to me like he did the right thing. I waited 8 years to get married again. DH and I were together for 4 before we got married and I still grieve. Also, him selling the home he shared with her, was a huge thing for him. Trust me. I think it is great that he is moving on with someone and maybe it will make her understand your lives a little better. She is now a SM to 6 kids. Can you imagine what hell she is in for. Karma is a bithc.