It comes to an end....
It's been a loooong time since I posted or visited this site. I think the last entries were last summer concerning my step-daughters wedding. All went well BTW.
Well...after 6 1/2 years.We broke up! So there hasn't been much to discuss or bitch about. No crazy X wife, no step kid issues...no guilty Dad syndrome. He moved out in November...and moved in with his daughter and her new husband and has been living there for almost 8 months now.
I'm good with it. No regrets. No bitterness. My son sees him on a regular basis still..there relationship remains intact.
I am now dating a man with two ex wives and two adult children and 1 1/2 grand children. Sucker for punishment huh!!!?!!
I have to say..it's completely different. I get along great with X1 and his 2 children. X2 has a few issues with X1, the kids, and me too aparently (for whatever reasons..I don't know this woman), so I guess the "issues" seem to lie with X2 as the common denominator. They have no kids together so contact with her is limited. And new guy & I each have are own separate houses, vehicles, campers, etc.
I'm not so quick to jump into things....
I'll have to catch up with my old friends and meet some new ones...unfortunately I'm soo busy with work & kids ..my time to myself is limited.
Take care all
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I just finished posting on your news! It's all good for me too. He walked away from the house. He took his stuff I kept my stuff. Nothing worth fighting over. Wow. I haven't been on here in ages. I can't believe your splitting up too. I'm glad you feel good about it. Oh I have to tell you this. Just after we broke up..his X's mother kept calling him and insisting that he come over to visit..guess who lives there too?...His crazy X..turned up the "let's be friends" routine big time... I'm so glad I'm done with her.
New guy, has taken a couple road trips with X1 to visit his (their) children out of province...her 2nd husband also in tow. But it's so different. They have a healthy, well balanced, relationship as ex's...not too close...but a respectful friendship..but also with boundaries..and some distance..because they are X's. We will be attending birthday parties, events etc. together..I know that was an issue for you..but it does not bother me.. at least not so far. She is a very nice person as is her husband. New Guy's sisters & parents love me already, I feel very comfortable. But if I start to get uncomfortable at any point I know who to talk to.
I'm so happy for you. "Fearless the Free"
Take Care
Lovin-life