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Am I overreacting???

Luna HG's picture

Ok this is bugging the hell out of me but idk if it should or not. So BM keeps talking to SIL's to try to be "friends" with them. So she keeps trying to hang out with them and message them constantly. Like its turning into harassment. My SIL's won't tell her to stop bothering them and that they don't want to hang out. I mean I would understand if it was my SIL's messaging her to hang out with them then I cant say anything but she has no business with my family. the only reason she should see or do anything with my family is when she has to pick up SS from my MIL's house. She keeps trying to say they are her family. She has nothing to do with them its only SS that we care about not her! Am I overreacting with this or what should I do??

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Clearly An Upgrade's picture

Do your SILs tell you that BM messages them? How do you know the frequency and content of BM's messages? I would tell SILs that it makes you feel weird when they tell you about BM's contact with them, and that if they cannot/will not ask her to stop, then you don't want to know about it, because it bothers you.

That way you've made your point and can live in peace, no matter what course of action the SILs decide on.

I would be bothered too.