So here we go. Myself and the BF have sat down and talked 3 to 4 times about rules for the SD. We agree on them and not two days later they get thrown out the window by him. There are no rules in this house. Yesterday i walked out with our youngest. I came back the next night to talk. He said he understood why I was upset and that he was too lazy and that if I would give him a clean start he would do better.The rules are simple nothing hard. If he doesnt stick too them this time I cant stay here in this house. I am on the verge of walking away and never looking back. This all feels so hopeless. Its sad when I would rather work a 60 hour week then come home and spend time in my own house. Wish us luck because if this doeant work this marriage is over.