So Haven't posted in a while, things around here are pretty good so far.

SS13 is doing fairly well getting more than spoiled a couple of weeks ago tho something did happen DH and I are not really sure what to do about it He is no longer allowed cups in his room because we think he has been peeing in them. One day I went in there to get his bird which he no longer has because he lost it somewhere and I found a whole bunch of cups in his room 2 of which had a mysterious very foul smelling liquid in them so bad it made me throw up ( I'm 8 months pregnant). We asked him about it and he says he has absolutely NO IDEA of what we are talking about so we just told him no more cups.

SD9 is progressing very well with her attitudes and behavior I'm SO proud of her we have our days but for the most part things are getting fairly normal as they can be a a special points chart to get a slumber party Friday night. It's special because I've been put on bed rest and can't do her things in the morning and she has to do them all by herself. She only has 10 points leeway out of 100 and she already up to 8 points. I'm kind of scared that she won't make it. She has been working so hard I would really HATE to take this away from her but we sat down and agreed together on everything so I will have to follow through if she doesn't make it perhaps think of a reward that is worth less points.

BS5 is doing okay I think him being with his dad during the week it's kind of hard to tell. I hate how I can not even communicate with his father because he is such a control freak. I'm really worried about my BS being there for very much longer because his head is being filled with garbage about me and our family here. This week it was daddy says that you don't love me as much as you love brother(BS 3). I just keep telling him it's not true and that I love him more than the sun and the moon and give him big hugs. We are going back to court in January and I REALLY hope the judge actually listens to what I have to say. He really needs to be in a healthy environment and I'm so worried about how this is affecting him because he is so impressionable. He has developmental delays already and his father seems to think he is completely fine and that I am trying to sway the school for getting him a resource he does not need ( a TA ) He had said recently that I am setting BS5 up to fail because I have no faith in him and how bad of a parent I am for insisting that something is wrong with him when there is not. There is though I have been saying so and trying to get BS5 help since he was 2. His father is in denial I think aside from being all high and mighty thinking he is better than me. It's just so frustrating dealing with him sometimes I just wish I would have been smart enough to put father unknown on the birth certificate.

BS3 is doing REALLY well he is with his BD for the next week and is loving preschool. I miss him but It's not that much longer. With me on bed rest it is probably good that I don't have to be chasing him around anyways.

As for DH and I we are pretty good aside from this whole bed rest thing stupid sciatica! I'm super excited because we are re doing the bathroom downstairs and all we have left to do is put in my new tub which I plan on enjoying very much especially during this last month of pregnancy. Sucks though because I am having a c-section Dec 5th and then I can't use it for 6 weeks

Well I guess that's all for now