I AM SO PISSED.....
I am literally f****ng shaking!!!!! BM has just rung to see if one of us (myself or DH) can take SS9 (he is at his Mums this week) to the doctor at 12 today!!!! Why?!?? Because it's too hard for her with the babies!!!!! Her other children are 2 1/2 and 1 1/2. Don't worry about the fact that we are actually at work!!!! FUCK ME! And DH's response when I get the shits.....well at least I get to see him....yep there you go again justify her piss poor excuse!!!!
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Damn. Another man afraid to
Damn. Another man afraid to say no to his ex wife.
I'm sorry. I know its infuriating. That would send me over the top.... So he basically has to leave work and lose pay, or use vacation time because her sorry ass can't get up and go?
I hope for yourself, this doesn't happen a lot.
Do you ever get the excuse
Do you ever get the excuse that "the only ones that suffer are the kids"? And then DH hands over his balls to BM and does what she wants for the sake of the kids :sick:
Yes that is actually BMs
Yes that is actually BMs favorite tool to use for manipulation. If he doesn't do what she wants when she wants and at whatever expense..."it's the kids that are suffering because you won't do..." and the kids have learned that anything they want, dad will be expected to comply and provide. When he doesn't then he gets the silent treatment.
He has recently claimed he is no longer giving up his man parts and being guilted into doing what they want...we shall see.
Yes, oh I love that worn out
Yes, oh I love that worn out phrase.
Yes HadEnought, I get that
Yes HadEnought, I get that one all the time *eyeroll*
The problem is BM doesn't say
The problem is BM doesn't say the skids will suffer, DH tells me that so he has an excuse to do what he wants.
Maree and Dogperson, Thats
Maree and Dogperson, Thats another one SO uses too. He says his lawyer tells him he should take them every opportunity he gets. Thing is his lawyer actually believes (because SO says this in heated moments) SO is gonna take her to court for more parenting time (already has 50/50) And lawyer wants SO to document all of this. But SO only listens to the 'suck BMs rear end' part of what the lawyer says and has no intention(thank GOD) of getting more CO parenting time. BUt I dont care what he does with them or how much of HIS money he spends on them or how much of HIS time he spends with them, or how much money he loses from working because of her lazy parenting., as long as it doesnt cost me time or money }:)
It happens all the
It happens all the time....she NEVER takes him!! I think she thinks she is doing her MOTHERLY duty by just ringing up and making the appointment!! Then passes it on to DH or myself to physically take him!!
And yes, "it's too hard with the BABIES" (again a 2 1/2 and 1 1/2 yr old)
excuse gets used ALL the time......
"it's too hard for me to" :
*take him to cricket training
*take him to swimming practice
*take him to the hairdresser
*take him to soccer
*pick him up from school
ARRRGGGHHHH.....this woman makes me want to scream.....and DH is just being enabling her to get away with this shit!!
And another thing that pisses me off, I'd bet my house on it, that she won't offer any money to pay for the doctor or for any medicine he may need!!
Oh, and another thing....he always has a go at me because he thinks whenever my DD14 asks me to take her anywhere etc. that I always jump straight away and do whatever she wants....how the HELL is this any different?!? He is jumping for his EX-WIFE!!!!!
Yes its true, He is. ANd the
Yes its true, He is. ANd the rest of the world sees it that way too. Even BM! She knows he is doing it for her. But these guys think we are stupid and we believe what they say.
i'd tell him at least it's
i'd tell him at least it's your kid asking and not your EX.
It's different because it's
It's different because it's not for the ex...it's for the kids (said dripping with sarcasm).