So my mother in law is a real piece of work...she always emails me & often has something bad to say about BM (they live in the same town, we are out of state) and always tells me how much she loves me & how glad she is my husband has me in his life yada yada...well there was some nasty emails going back & forth between BM and me because I emailed her to tell her to let SS know his bday present was on its way, but will probably be a couple days late thru the mail. She has a nasty comment back about it being late. So we are emailing back & forth & she makes a comment about how great her relationship is with my husbands mom & his grandparents, so of course I felt the need to let her know that mother in law talks bad about her to me all the time & say she's only nice to her so she doesnt give her a hard time seeing SS, she then goes on to tell me how MIL always talks bad about me to her, telling her I once hit my kid for taking cheese off his pizza (flat out lie) and that once I went to go get food for me & my son & didn't even ask SS if he wanted anything (another lie). MIL even asked BM to come & stop our wedding last year. Even though considering the source (who by this point is actually being nice in her emails) we realize that MIL is talking bad about both of us to the other & thriving off the drama. My husband doesnt believe the BM, so I email MIL & confront her. She apologizes if she ever said anything to hurt either one of us, then just kinda blows it off. I ask why she said the thing about stopping the wedding, she says she doesnt remember saying that. Yeah right. She is usually doped up on pain pills (she has multiple health issues) but that cannot be her excuse for everything. So that was all 2 weeks ago & I havent responded to any of her emails since. Now we get a phone call saying she is coming to visit, if thats ok, to see our new baby that she hasnt met yet. Great, can't wait. My hubby will be off at work all day & I get to be home with her. I told my hubby I was not going to act all friendly & fake after what she pulled, I wouldnt be rude but not going out of my way AT ALL for her (she's very high maintenance when she's here) He thinks I should just let it go & go back to normal, forgive & forget. Any advice?