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So my SD lives with my husband and I full time. The first 9 years of her life she lived with her BM one week and with my husband the next week. Everything was 50/50. So for the laast 3 years she now lives with her us full time because her mother is into drugs now. Unfortunitly the court system gave her visatation one weekend a month. Well she has this new boyfriend and we just found out that he is a convicted child molester!!!!! YUCK! We can not allow my SD to be anywhere near him! So now we have taken all her rights away. And the kicker is that the BM knows this about her boyfriend!
We my SD b-day is comming up and BM wants me to drive and hour to her house so that she can see her. She has no job no car and no money? I can't believe the nerve of her to ask me. Let alone in front of the kid. So my SD is all excited and wants me to take her. She promises that the boyfriend wont be there. I dont know what to do????
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don't do it! is there a
don't do it! is there a grandma or aunt somewhere around that can take her?? seriously --- DO NOT DO IT!
Why is this your
Why is this your responsibility? It should be up to your dh, and I would hope he's smart enough to say hell no.
What type of mother can justify being with a child molester? Is this another one of those an 18 year old slept with a 15 year old, or something?
No from what I saw online it
No from what I saw online it was back in 03....he was not 18 lets just say that. He is a grown "man" who molseted a 14 year old!!!!!!
AND if bm wants to see her
AND if bm wants to see her kid enough --- tell her to take the bus and see kid at mcdonalds
I have done that before and
I have done that before and BM does not come around ever!!!! And that just seems to make things wrose with SD and me!
tell sd to ask DAD to take
tell sd to ask DAD to take her if mutual meeting grounds doesn't work..... in this situation, i would be as concerned for my own safety as sd's... you don't know what kind of whack jobs you're working with..... did i say this already --- DON'T DO IT!
I agree with everyone
I agree with everyone else...don't do it! Give it over to DH. Your SD is his responsibility in the end. It should be up to him to decide if this happens or not and up to him to get her there or wherever the meeting place would be. Keep the child away from the child molester at all costs! Is she old enough for DH to try explaining the concerns about BMs new boyfriend in child friendly terms? That might help her understand the reservations about taking her to see BM. In any case, you need to turn this responsibility over to DH to work out with BM...this is not your responsibility. PERIOD!