DH just announced that he wants to go to SGS's high school graduation. This is the oldest son of SD who isn't talking to DH because... don't know. We used to have a good relationship with SGS but in the last few years no communication, no thank yous for gifts, etc. Expect that's about loyalty to his mother.

They are a plane ride away. When is the graduation? He doesn't know. Do we need tickets or is there a limit on seats? Don't know. He's going to call SD. Who likely won't pick up.

DH didn't ask me if I wanted to go, or even if I would go with him. He can't travel by himself, unless I put him on the plane and somebody picks him up on the other end.

Ok then. He's impulsive, I'm the planner. Guess who isn't planning this one?