Well last night fiancée got to sleep on the couch because I blew up, couldn't take it anymore. BM's been calling the last 3 weeks spouting all kinds of crap about me and making up false accusations and threatening to move back and take ss way from fiancée and it's pretty much been hell. This all started because she wouldn't sign the final custody papers (the same ones she agreed to before she moved) and she didn't file a response so our lawyer is filing for default and we go to court this Thursday.

When she got the letter telling her we were filing for default all hell broke lose and it was like that until Saturday. On Saturday she calls fiancée and asks him if he can send ss down for Spring Break because she now has her half of the airfare. Spring Break is the first week of April and she waits till now even though we've been trying for weeks to get her to let us know what's going on. We even had to cancel our trip to NY because we didn't think she was going to take him.

The reason she's now being nice and civil is because she's past her 5 day period to file a response to the court in regards to the custody paperwork so it's going into default on Thursday. She has no leverage anymore so she's now trying a different approach. What gives her the right to waste our time and money by not signing something she was never going to fight and waiting till the last possible minute to ask for ss to come down.

I told fiancée that I wouldn't put up with this anymore. After the custody paperwork is finally filed he needs to have stipulations added such as at least a months notice if she is or isn't taking him on her designated visitation dates and that she can't call just any damn time she pleases but has to at a designated time on a separate cell (that we'll buy for ss to keep at home).

He agreed to all that and even said that he wasn't sending ss down because she waited to late and we now have other plans. Well I was fine with that because I'm tired of BM wasting our time, money and treating us like crap and than getting her way…she needs to grow up and start acting like an adult. Bet you are now all wondering if things ended on this note that what's wrong?

Last night (Sunday) BM calls and wants to talk to fiancée. She mentions Spring Break and I assume that fiancée is going to tell her that he's not sending ss down. I was wrong again…instead they discuss pricing and he looks up flight options etc…I was PISSED. When he gets off the phone I told him that he better but ss to bed because I needed to talk and I didn't want ss to hear what I had to say. So after ss is in bed I let fiancée have it. I told him that I'm sick and tired of her getting away with murder and bad mouthing me and he not sticking up for me, wasting our time and money and making our lives hell and now that she has no other options playing nice…until next time when she goes psycho again.

His excuse was that he was doing it for ss (he's 8 years old and HATES going to visit his mother so this is so not true) and that the next visitation wasn't until summer break so he was trying to be nice. We've been trying to get her to let us know if she's taking him for summer for almost 6 months now because we were planning on eloping in Hawaii while ss was with her during the summer so I asked him, "Is she taking him for the summer?" Same answer as always…she doesn't know. I was not happy with that answer I told him right than and there that he had better have something drawn up that said she needed to give us notice by the end of May and if she didn't than he would not be going down and that he better stick to it or I was moving out come May. I told him that I was sick of her always getting her way and that if this continued that I would be leaving. I also told him that if he was sending ss down to his mom for Spring Break that he needed to have her reimburse the money we already spent on ss going to Cali to visit my parents.

I'm sick of everything being on her terms and his allowing it…how come she gets to be a total b*tch and still gets everything she wants