BM and her delusion.
Well from my pervious blog..SO got into it with BM today. Why? She is out of her mind lol.
She called SO today to "talk" about SS17 and the vape SO found.
SO said she started to piss him off because she was saying that "she has older friends and they find it very helpful."
SO said I don't care about other people I'm talking about SS17.
Then she claimed that SS17 told her that SO said he was an f up and she couldn't believe that he would say that. SO says I didn't say that.. I told him if he keeps acting this way then yes he will be. I'll add that SS17 is a follower and it will just lead to other things.
Now this is where the convo starts to turn....
BM starts raddeling off things like:
"you use to be more patience."
"You don't encourage the kids to do anything with me"
"I know you guys talk about me!" (Nope lady sorry we don't)
"you don't tell the kids to wish me a happy birthday"
"SS16's gf wasn't personable" (this was one of my favs because gf went with them last week for BMs dinner with SS16)
"SS16 doesn't even answer when I call"
"kids never want to do anything with me"
"we use to be friends"
"court happened and it's all your fault"
LIKE WHAT??? What did any of these have anything to do with SS17 vaping???!!?!!?!
"you never tell me anything about the kids!" (Ironic because the phone call WAS about SS17)
SO kept firing back at her with responses like:
"this is about SS17 NOT YOU"
"I didn't start court you did by threats"
"we are not friends!"
"I don't know what you want to hear!"
"if you want to see the kids do something with them!!"
There were more but those are some highlights. BM INSTANTLY spun the whole thing to be about her. I told SO these was a few months over due. She's been trying to get you on the phone for a while now. Clearly we know what she wanted .
The conversation ended because she gave up on not hearing what she wanted and she said "I'm done trying to fix our relationship!" LOLLLLLL WHAT ARE YOU TALKING LADY??!
Shes out of her mind. SO says hopefully she doesn't call him for a long time. I also added my two cents by saying what does she want you tell her about them? When they go poo poo on the potty. I mean seriously! She is stuck in a time frame from 10 years ago. SO did say to her they are almost practically adults what do you want!
Now I'm curious if she will up her game to try and make plans... SO is doubtful though.
Crazy Crazy.
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I'll add that also in the
I'll add that also in the beginning of the convo BM was saying how she did stuff in high school and was pretty much saying that she was ok with it. Followed with the "older friends" statement.
SO also told her when she made the comment about calling SS17 a f up that she has no idea what it's been like dealing with him.
i wrote this in like two minutes so a few key things left out lol.
BTDT with this kind of stuff.
BTDT with this kind of stuff. It is nuts. Somehow it always comes back to be about them. SS is underage and should not be vaping.... period. It is your house and your rules....period. They have no relationship to fix.. period. It is draining. BM here has been ramping up a bit too, and I am waiting for a full out throw down. It is like it has to happen every so often for her to be happy.
Yepl! I knew something was
Yepl! I knew something was brewing. I'm also wondering what her husbands perspective. SO and I both think that he doesn't know of these conversations and whatever she tells him is probably not the truth just making herself victim.
She sounds like my husband’s exwife
So unstable, abusive, high conflict narcissist. She thought abusing him those 14+ years of marriage gave her the right that hubby would never divorce her till my fil told hubby to ditch the bitch and screw staying together for the sake of your kids. That woman is hindering your career success.
Within 3 months of divorce being finalised hubby got promoted and salary is now almost 8 times what he used to earn when married to her. Exwife had eldest sd when about 23 rant on how hubby destroyed bio mum by divorcing her and thats why she went crazy. Ok believe that all you want but she was always crazy.
women like this are blame blame blame anyone else but themself
When I first started seeing
When I first started seeing SO BM1 would send him things like "why does our son ask if you love me?" And he responded "idk because I don't" (they were never in a relationship) and then she would send random pics of herself captioned "not bad for 2 kids" to which he replied a puking emoji.
since she found out about me it's never happened again but some women just don't get it. She too makes every call/correspondence about herself. I feel bad for the people that have to put up with that.
Same
Were your hubby and mine married to the same person? After a recent misunderstanding with SD14, she told my DH "You need to talk to her like a little girl." And DH is like, she's not a little girl anymore. She is growing up, and will be an adult sooner than you want to admit. Not only that, but she wants more and more rights and privileges, which is normal for her age. We're supposed to trust her, give her more freedom like someone who's getting older, but coddle her like a baby? No.
And we've had the whole "we used to be friends," and comments about "working on our relationship." And as far as those going down a rabbit hole convos, my favorite was when their son got caught dealing drugs, and the family meeting they had became all about how much he hated me. I'm convinced he did that on purpose, because he can always distract his mom with that, and his dad shifts focus to damage control and defending me, instead of the issue at hand.
Same
Were your hubby and mine married to the same person? After a recent misunderstanding with SD14, she told my DH "You need to talk to her like a little girl." And DH is like, she's not a little girl anymore. She is growing up, and will be an adult sooner than you want to admit. Not only that, but she wants more and more rights and privileges, which is normal for her age. We're supposed to trust her, give her more freedom like someone who's getting older, but coddle her like a baby? No.
And we've had the whole "we used to be friends," and comments about "working on our relationship." And as far as those going down a rabbit hole convos, my favorite was when their son got caught dealing drugs, and the family meeting they had became all about how much he hated me. I'm convinced he did that on purpose, because he can always distract his mom with that, and his dad shifts focus to damage control and defending me, instead of the issue at hand.