BM said to SD.. "I don't know what dad and missk said to SS20 to make him stop talking to me." LOLLL. She is literally insane. I said to SD she really just does NOT get it.. SD agrees. 

SD said that she still keeps going on about me. That... she "appreciated" what I've done (aka literally raise her kids for the past almost 10 years) that I damaged her relationship with SD.

I said to SD (almost 18) that I don't know why she can't recognize her own behavior and STOP trying to degrade my character and who I am as a person.

This convo came up because her and I were talking about SS21... who I don't get along with AT ALL. We just don't speak and I said i think a major part of it has to do with all the stuff your mom continuously says about me...  she agrees too. 

Friendly reminder BM used to take them EOWE (and even the 6 days a month she had tried to pawn off half the time) and completed stopped in 2018. She would see them a handful of times a year.... living only 4 miles away. SS20 hasn't really talked to her in 2 years.