So I'll start with this blog is debating wether to tell SD or not. 

SD turned 18 last week. She had plans with her BF (naturally) to go out to eat. Normally BM takes her out once a year on her birthday but not this year... SD told BM she would stop by after dinner and BM told her she couldn't... I found that interesting. 

SD and her boyfriend were leaving our house to go out and BM was calling. Where they were going was 10 minutes from our house.

10 minutes later I get a phone call. 

SD proceeds to tell me that BM is giving her a DIY gift for her birthday and she told her "you're not getting any money."

SD proceeded to go on for 30 minutes how she got into it with BM the day before her birthday because BM told her she won't be able to help her with college book cost. This triggered SD. SD went on to say to BM how she hasn't done anything etc. BM told her it was a "low blow." And BM claimed she was "sick" aka post partum, depression, and whatever other self diagnosis you want to throw in there... So not doing anything for your kids since your separation in 2011 because you were cheating doesn't really line up with your self diagnosis BM. SD continued to rant about various things about BM and how I've done everything she didn't. I felt bad. Her she is on her 18th birthday ranting to me in a parking lot. 

Anways..

SD sees her on Monday. She goes over with her boyfriend. They are there for under an hour SD tells me. First thing she reiterated to her was "there is no money in there."

SD opens her gift and it's a diamond art picture of 3 chickens, another diamond art project of a flower, a turtle necklace, and a Kendra Scott necklace..which are super popular with that age group and BMs mom gets them for SD that's were she got the idea from. 

So SO does not understand the chicken thing.. it was a nickname that he called SD when she was little... the past 5 years she has brought this "chicken" nickname into everything with SD. 

SD also told me that BM made super awkward conversation with her and her bf... The best part is SDs boyfriend gets in the car and says "you should call missk about this one." LOLL. I'll add SDs boyfriend is such a nice kid and gets along really well with us and isn't shy anymore. Plus SD is a ball breaker and very witty so he really can't be haha. I'm going to be really sad when the break up... but who knows.. 

So... SD had to bring me to the train station early this morning and her gift was in the car still so she's like oh look. So I like at them and I'm just kind of at a loss for words. It's something a 8 year old does for arts and crafts stuff. 

She was just like I don't know....

So I take pics of them to send to SO he is away and I won't see him until Friday. 

I got on the train and am bored so I decide to image search the pics I took of  SDs "gifts"

I found the flower stencil and click on it. Low and behold BM left a review on Amazon (her review has her f'n picture so no denying) from Feb... the review states how she finished it in under a day and good to "take your mind off things."

HMMMMMMM

So that was NOT specially for SD it was something she just randomly did in february for herself and told SD she did it for her birthday. 

Now my dilemma... I want to send the review to SD. BM lies about the DUMBEST things!! She told SD she framed it for her birthday so maybe that's the only truth..... I doubt it though. She probably had it somewhere in her house and was like oh I'll just add this in there. SD I don't think ever goes over there... and when she does it months and months in between. 

I'll add if BM couldn't afford things and this was only something she could do we would understand. But this is FAR from the case.

She has never provided them with anything while owning two houses, multiple cars, motorcycles and a damn RV. Always claims it's her "husbands" so she can continue to act like she has "no money" 

It is absoluelty absurd at this point.

I want to show SD the review to call at her stupid petty lie without seeming petty myself.