Small rant/vent
So SD started getting her nails done again so BM is taking her once a month for them.
So recap BM picked SD up in July for a 35 minute ride in her new toy (jeep wrangler according to SD her and her husband spilt it .. she still has her car on top of their multiple motorcycles) brought her to kohl's so she could return Amazon returns, didn't offer to get SD anything and brought her home.
She brought her in august before school to get her nails. Came and picked her up in the jeep. The jeep had some new accessories on it in august.
Well I just watched her pick up SD on the cameras. Pulls in the driveway, far enough to be off camera (Which is annoying as F.. our driveway can fit 2 cars wide and 3 deep with like 5 feet of room at the end.. she pulls up into a least where say a a second car would be parked) blasting music, top off, more accessories on the jeep, doors off with some sort of other door thing ( not sure what they are called) LED lights on the bumper, a new grill.
It's 10:45am and your pulling in the driveway (like you fucking live there) blasting music.. I mean seriously...
I just can't fucking stand her.
SS16 had left like 5 minutes before she got there. Last time she picked up SD he didn't even bother getting out of bed. She dropped SD off before 11am on a Saturday. I don't think she's seen him since he got his license and he drove over there quick in may.. and before that might have been Xmas..or a driveway hi possibly..
Not sure about SS18 but my guess his birthday in July because he has been consumed with his new gf.
I just try REALLY to not let her bother me... but the way she acts like she owns the place just pisses me off. Granted she doesn't come around much.. we have two years before SD has her license but when she does it just annoying.
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It would annoy me more that
It would annoy me more that your SO won't go after her for Child Support and she rubs that in your face all the time.
Tell me about it! SO has been
Tell me about it! SO has been supporting them since birth. If BM did pay child support we would have A LOT more problems with her for sure.
He wanted nothing from her which isn't fair but, her kids know she doesn't contribute and they see it..
Maybe you'd have problems. Or
Maybe you'd have problems. Or maybe she'd actually have them for custody time to reduce her Child Support. And why should you have to help pay for her kids when she won't?
Her on paper custody time is
Her on paper custody time is sat/sun EOWE. That hasn't happened we are approaching 4 years now. She never wanted the kids with her. She's been living the life she thought she missed out by having kids for 10 years.
I've actually lived with the 3 kids together longer then she has.. SD just turned 4 when they speparated.
Right - because there are no
Right - because there are no consequences for her not taking them. If she was court-ordered to pay Child Support unless she had them for 50% of the time, she might have done it. Your SO made it easier on her to abandon her kids.
Now, she might have just not taken them and not paid it, that happens a lot with NCP mothers, but you never know.
Oh he totally made it easy
Oh he totally made it easy for her to abandon them. It was never about kids only control over him. He gave her so much money not court ordered for 6 years based on a verbal agreement they made...
Once she lost that money and knew SO wasn't going for CS she dropped her rope and said OK!! I'm freeeee! These are my words.
Her coming into the driveway blasting music etc is her trying to be "cool." Look at my mommy she's just the coolest right??!
Sept 2017 she refused to drop/pick up SS18 (14 then) on her weekend at a local fair that every kid in town goes to hang out with their friends. SO and I were going to the fair that night so I told her we would drop SS off at her house..
This chick comes walking over to the car from the neighbors house eating a Jell-O shot hammered all like "HeYyY GuYs." She couldn't pick him up because she wanted to drink. This was the beginning of the end.
Honestly though, if she DID take skids there would be so much more stress because of her and the behavior of skids that would have been created because of her.
How dare she
How dare she disregard her own kids that way. I would be steamed, too. She is making an obnoxious display with her car. I'd hate, her, too. I feel sorry for the kids and I'm glad they have you.