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BM sent me another "accidental text"

momandmore's picture

Or was it an accident? I know she wants a response either way and she's not getting one. She asked for money in the text :jawdrop:

This person pays no CS, gets a check every month, pays no rent, does nothing to contribute for her children and is asking the SM for money. HA.

This text came at 1:30 this morning and we were sleeping so... She was probably at the bar. SMH.

She hasn't called to beat her kids down on the phone for a couple of weeks, Good thing.

I just don't get why she does this stupid shit.. I never will, I know and I stopped trying to figure it out long ago. It's just really annoying.

In the past when she has text late at night, I would respond around 5:30 in the am. But with these texts she has been sending recently to make it look like they are accidentally sent to me(this one but the other ones were about me) I haven't responded.

effing psycho

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momandmore's picture

No, she doesn't pay any CS and the kids are here FT. She never has them.

She did have to pay some money back through her monthly check thought because she didn't tell them she didn't have the kids when DH and she divorced.

She got pissed about that because SSI didn't catch it until DH went for CS so that made her check go down about $300.

momandmore's picture

I saw how that could have been read wrong Sad

This person doesn't care who she asks. It really doesn't shock me but it hasn't happened in a while either. So if it wasn't accidental, I'm not shocked by it but damn, she just has no shame.

momandmore's picture

definitely an alcoholic. Bad. I'm not sure of any other drugs besides pot but it's quite possible that she has picked up something else.

momandmore's picture

oh I so wish I could! I don't reply to these stupid texts. I just document, file and pretend I never got them.

momandmore's picture

I document and screenshot all texts to and from her. I mostly ignore, unless she is setting up a visit, which is rare. I can't block her, My phone # is the only one she has so she can contact the kids, which is also rare and always a mess.

It used to be DH's phone but he found a better plan, always breaks his phones at work so I have his old number and he has throw away phones. I also handle all DR appointments, dental, school stuff.... and I work from home so it's easier for them to just contact me.

BM now knows that DH has a different # but hasn't asked for it surprisingly. She would just use it to harass him anyways. If there is something they need to talk about..which hasn't happened in a year, DH uses my phone to contact her.

momandmore's picture

She has asked numerous times before and it wasn't accidental. She once told me it was our fault she couldn't come to see her kids because we wouldn't give her gas money!!

WTF...REALLY's picture

Gotta love a BM that does not pay any CS for their own kids....deadbeats. I have SD full time and you guessed it. Zero CS.

momandmore's picture

Let me guess... she does everything and then some for her child though? I mean, according to her.

Tuff Noogies's picture

well shit, heckfire - sounds like we both have the same dumbass bm's!!!! and i know you're somewhere near my neck of the woods too!!!!