Why? I'm afraid I would look too similar to Darth Vader.

It's so stinking hot already and I just want to chop my hair off for the summer. But Darth Vader keeps her hair short (although her's is stick straight and mine is super curly...but I sometimes straighten it).

Is this silly of me to be worried about? Perhaps.

Not like we're hardly ever around each other (especially since there are no sports for SS9 to play over the summer, thankyouJesusbytheway.

Disengaging has been going well; DH will try to ask my opinions on stuff and I will just barely answer it. He tried to ask me what time he should drop SS9 off tomorrow to BM, I said I don't care and went on about my business.

REALLY trying to just support him. Even trying to pull back on how much dropping off/picking up I volunteer to help with. But that's a very hard part for me to pull back on. If I pulled myself out of helping out there, we'd hardly get to see SS9 (because then she would say she can't bring him or she needs to come get him super early, etc.)