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dh tore xh a new ass sunday

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Submitted by mommyof1girl1bo... on Wed, 05/22/2013 - 12:47pm

and i can't say i blame him. i live in oklahoma, right in the middle of where all the tornado's hit. well, xh didn't pay any attention to the weather. on friday, he told dh he'd have dd home by 4 (we hoped BECAUSE of the weather) well, he texted me AT 4 that he was leaving but didn't say where from. his gf lives 2 hours up state, he live 20 min from me, so big difference, need to know. well, he never replied to my "where from" text, so dh called to find out so we knew where dd was. Well, he chewed him out because he was going to be driving dd right into the tornado's path and told him he needs to be more responsible when leaving town like that (he does)

so once i find out he's coming from 2 hours up state i start freaking out because i knew my dd would be in the path of a monster. before the tornado hit stroud i seriously start paniking. i blow up his phone (called 3x) to find out WHERE he is. o he was just minutes from going under one of the hook echos. i beg him to get off the highway and find shelter so he didn't go into a tornado. he said he didn't know there was supposed to be bad weather, i told him to stop with the excuses, they've been talking about it ALL week but just get off the highway and get away from the storm! surley enough, he stops for shelter at the mcdonalds in stroud where a tornado hit but didn't cause any damage.

so he gets back on the road, and while he's on the road, more circulation starts just miles from where i am. i called him to find out his location to tell him we have circulation and to stop, get cover and wait for it to pass.....he didn't. we are all in the shelter, and i'm in tears cause i know dd is still out there. he finally pulls up dh was waiting at the house, and as dd was getting into the shelter with me, dh asked xh if he was goign ot get in shelter, xh said no, and drove off.

we are all ok, it didn't hit us, but monday (i work downtown) my supervisor evacuated us to the downtown tunnels for shelter. i waited for 2 hours past my end of shift and watched the news as it tried to form directly over my neighborhood.....but thankfully it didnt!

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Submitted by KiFire on Wed, 05/22/2013 - 1:03pm

:jawdrop: :jawdrop: :jawdrop:

Your XH is a fucking psycho! oh my god I'm so sorry he did that to you and your DD.

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Submitted by LaMareOssa on Wed, 05/22/2013 - 1:11pm

^^^^ This! Omg I'm soo sorry he put you and your DD through that! I would have strangled him!! Thank goodness youre all safe!

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Submitted by mommyof1girl1bo... on Wed, 05/22/2013 - 1:15pm

Dh told me "true he should've gotten her home before the storms, i don't think he would be dumb enough to stay in the car with her. that's why i was telling you to calm down" (he was)

needless to say, that and the events from yesterday put me in anxiety mode. i went to er with chest pain, they put me on anxiety pills!! of course, i have a lot of reason to have anxiety for.

since march of last year, i lost my grandma, grandpa 3 months later, my son 3 months after that (died at birth) i almost died in delivery, my family disowned me, and we had 2 days to prepare for ss to come live with us, o and i got diagnosed with mild displacia (a pre cervical cancer). so yeah, i would agree i'm stressed to the max.

but for xh to not pay attention to weather (cause he's a disney dad) like that, and need me to call to beg him to not go into a damn tornado........yeah, after coming back to work yesterday and listening to all the terror that went on, knowing i was almost a part of that terror...set me over my limit

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Submitted by Lalena75 on Wed, 05/22/2013 - 1:21pm

I'm glad your all okay. I tend to be the reckless one when it comes to tornado's but I'm reckless with myself while my kids (well my ds) hides in the bathroom with the pets my dd and I are taking pic's and listening to the weather spotters or I'm chasing them. But once just once I was hundreds of miles away when I over heard a guy on his cell say "what do you mean insert my town here was just hit by a tornado are mom and dad okay?" I grabbed this stranger freaking out demanding more info as my ds was a baby in my town with his dad and I was so far away with dd. I have never been so freaked out so I empathize.
It turned out the tornado destroyed a southern part of my town and just leveled a path from there to west of my home. Moments after the stranger told me what his brother had said and I called home to find out my ds and husband (exh) were safe, where my dd and I were the sirens went off as the same storm popped out a tornado smack on top of Indy.

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Submitted by mommyof1girl1bo... on Wed, 05/22/2013 - 1:27pm

my point exactly. i wouldn't have cared as much if dd was in SHELTER but god forbid her dad get to a shelter and stay there until it was over. yes i would've freaked out but not as bad if she were in a stationary building.

and i am reckless too. as long as i'm over all safe, and can hide with few seconds notice, i'm cool-------but not with my kid on teh damn road!

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Submitted by mommyof1girl1bo... on Wed, 05/22/2013 - 1:54pm

yes, it's not good, 9x out of 10 vehicles get thrown or picked up dangerously high, then when they hit ground, they implode on themselves. there is nothing "to not worry about" with that.

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Submitted by oldone on Wed, 05/22/2013 - 2:00pm

I've been in two tornados - very lucky as they literally turned at my home. But one time the houses across the street were demolished. The second time the house next door and the one house across the street had severe damaage - took off the side of the garage next door and the top story of the house across the street. This was in two separate states about 20 years apart.

Scary, scary.