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Submitted by MoominMama on Thu, 12/07/2017 - 1:40pm

An update to this sorry assed long post https://www.steptalk.org/node/242268 Just put the link to remind anyone interested.

We have not yet received the promised letter from BM's Lawyer. 11 days later...

either he's a v.e.r.y slow writer or it was yet another of her b/s threats.

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strugglingSM's picture

Submitted by strugglingSM on Thu, 12/07/2017 - 2:27pm

I suspect she was bluffing about the lawyer. I think any lawyer would tell you the same thing that your lawyer told you - that SS is 18 and he can decide if he wants contact with his mother or not.

I haven't read all of your blogs, but based on the one cited above, it seems as if BM is more interested in maintaining a relationship with your DH than with her child.

It does seem weird that she would text your DH to tell him to say happy birthday instead of trying to get in touch with the child herself. My DH couldn't wait for the day when he could just communicate with SSs directly and cut BM out entirely (she, on the other hand, had a fit). This is a broad generalization, but women - especially personality disordered women - have a really hard time letting go of any man that has ever been in their lives.

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Submitted by moving_on_again on Fri, 12/08/2017 - 9:36am

The BM in our case honestly believes that every man she's ever been with still wants to be with her. I know she is crazy but that is some next level crazy in my eyes.

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Submitted by moving_on_again on Fri, 12/08/2017 - 9:37am

If I had a dollar for every time BM said her lawyer was going to send us something, I'd have a lot of dollars. Never got a darn thing.