Hi there

I just wanted to introduce myself, I am MrsJanet, I have 2 children- son 17 and dtr 13. I was recently married in April to my DH and his 6 yr old son. So we are a blended family. DH has full custody of his son.
My kids are fine, SS is a brat. I have been in his life since he was 3. As he gets older, spends more time with his BM, the meaner he is to me. Which is to be expected, she (BM) is EVIL.... We are in the process of court, 4th continuance cuz BM is noncomplient. But yet she deserves the SS???? Whatever....

anywho...My DHs grandfather just passed away and we went to funeral, wanted to stay the weekend, SS visitations are every Sunday 8-6pm, BM would not allow him to skip a visit due to a death, but she is willing to skip a visit for SS to go to a water park with my MIL. Make sense?

anywho, I've been reading posts for days and thought I would jump on board!!!

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If it is due to death I

If it is due to death I think she has to skip the visit. I thought it was anything related to death or medical was. I would ask your attorney just for future reference.

Welcome!

MrsJanet - Welcome Aboard!

Would you consider letting SS6 stay with his mom for longer on Sunday or until Monday? (Or even with Mother in Law from Sunday to Monday) and you could get him on Monday?

The reason I ask is because SS6 at a funeral could go either way. It could be a great relief to the adults there to have a child present (I personally am drawn to kids at funerals because they are a little more unaware of what is going on.) ... Or, he could end up being a pain to watch since he may want attention or to play or whatever.... you know what I mean? DH may be able to mourn - have a better time?? - sorry I hope you know what I mean.... if SS6 isn't there.

Welcome!

If you've been reading the stuff on here I'm sure by now you've realized you're not alone; most of us here have crazy baby mama drama to deal with, DH's that are just so oblivious the the truth and ungrateful skids... (thankfully my skids aren't bad kids, simply products of their environment)

I'm sure it's not easy having SS live with you, especially with a BM who can "unknowingly" brainwash a kid.... believe me, been there....

"I aint no Carol Brady"

oh boy, this child is

oh boy, this child is brainwashed EVERY Sunday, comes back with something new all the time "i'm scared of you" "i don't have to listen to you, you're not my mom"

We have a lot of baby mama drama...my ss is wonderful, I love him as he was my own.

So glad to have you all here!