Alright. I know it's been almost a year since updating. Lots been going on. Pregnancy was tough. Gotta tell ya, bein alone, travelled back to Houston was brutal. I learned who my true friends were as they disappeared in my time of need. Alas, I am greatful for true friends.

Anywho, lets fast forward 10 months shall we? The daddy had been contacting (shocking). And despite what I went through I agreed that I would move back to AZ to give our marriage a last ditch effort for my son's sake. Daddy agreed to counseling and that he has "changed." *YAWN*... my bub was 3 months at that point. Arrangments were to be living with the dad's grandma. Long story short, daddy still had a tiny apartment. With trying to work things out with me and my baby, his stepdad (who owns apartment complexes) went ahead and gave daddy a huge 3 bedroom apartment (daddy works for stepdad). Low and behold, daddy has no reason to be with me anymore and "I'm just not feeling it now." ARE YOU SERIOUS?! 4 months pregnant, you change the locks on our house, change your phone number, don't give any money for child support and YOU'RE NOT FEELING IT?!!!!!

Things started getting weird with the dad's gma too. On a Thur night, June 21st, my bub was being particularly difficult and crying a ton, gma burst into the room and started yelling at me that she couldn't take it anymore and I HAD to do something. Bewildered at this, I was trying to calm down as it was. He was just not wanting to go to bed. She stood there watching demandingly yelling that I needed to stand up with him and do something (as if I hadn't tried that?!). Bub starts calming down and so does gma and she stormed off to her room and locked herself in there. Lovely. I text my dad.. "I have got to get out of here." He tells me to come there immediately because something doesn't feel right to him. I pack me and the baby's stuff, at the gma's protests and leave. My dad takes me the following day to file papers. I had this intuition of a ticking time bomb. Was weird.
The dad started being super weird. He was blowing up my phone trying to get a hold of me, he was even blowing up my moms phone. Then I find out he was showing up at work too telling my co-workers some weird tale. I had stopped all contact with him. My dad spoke to him on my behalf and told him to stop contacting me and to go through him... also explained things can go easy if he would agree to child support. He wouldn't. And even furthermore, tried to say I made more money than him which is preposterous! He still continued harrassing me despite my dad telling him not to contact me.
I ended up filing a restraining order and lost my job as well because of his drama. I couldn't even use my business phone because he was calling on it.
So listen to this, I had him personally served... he's trying to say he served me BY MAIL at his gmas house.
So tomorrow is our hearing for the protective order. Ugh...
Oh and his mom is bugging me about seeing the baby and now saying I owe the gma $200 from when I stayed with her to offset utilities. Um... daddy said he would be paying her $100/mo for us living there. NOR is he giving me child support. Get the money from your deadbeat son.