I wonder if this is the calming before the storm
Things recently have been oddly good with my SS's BM. Which is quite surprising if you have read some of my other posts!
A few weeks ago she was on one of her rampages which is what is normal with her. I don't even listen to what she says anymore and neither does my SO. Last week however I was completely caught off guard by her and I am still sitting here completely confused lol
My SO and I normally message BM daily to find out how SS2 is doing. He's been sick off and on recently so we like to check in frequently. Well my SO doesn't like to text her because she likes to talk so I take his phone to text her, she thinks its him but who cares at least somebody is doing it lol. She continued to text for a little bit back and forth and was being so disturbingly nice! :? She said she wants the 4 of us to go our for dinner together one night, I don't really have a problem doing this if it is going to be a positive thing but I worry that it won't. I worry it will be an opportunity for her to bash me to my face which is the only thing holding me back. So in response to that I replied "I will let you know" I kept it simple so there was no more questioning about it until I think this through and possibly from all of you get some feedback.
On to the next thing, this woman hasn't said one single thing to me in the year and a bit that my SO and I have been together. She made a joke to me...not about me...in one of the messages in regards to my SO's snoring. I know some of you are sitting there probably saying "uhhh WTF who cares" lol but really it's alarming because it is completely different from her normal. We ended up ending the conversation and she said "alright I will let you guys go don't want to keep you anymore" UHHHH WHAT? You haven't cared since him and I have been together.
I am beginning to think she may have somebody in her life she is interested in, her attitude normally changes quite a bit when she is seeing somebody so who knows maybe that is whats going on. She said she recognizes that she has anger issues and knows she needs to change that and is trying to turn things around! Hopefully it continues to go on like this I am enjoying it so much more, it's more peaceful this way 
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Our bm is being quite too. DH
Our bm is being quite too. DH signed up for his part of a supervised visitation (SV) monitoring place, which Bm has to go to in order to see ss. That was the frist of DEC.
Dec. 1st
BM: text DH and wants him to not make bm go to SV.
Nothing for the rest of Dec. no Christmas calls or anything.
Jan.1st
BM: text DH wanting schedule for ss basketball. Which she can't have because it is not a school activity.
BM: text DH in middle of Jan wanting our address. DH didn't texted her back because its in the court order papers.
We haven't heard from her since.No Valentine for SS nothing. Its been 3 months since Bm has seen him. We know she will go to jail at some point because she has warrants. Her MO is usually screaming and hollering to get her way. We don't know if Bm is even more strung out on drugs than she already was or what the hell. So we're just sitting back wanting for Bm to make the next move. The calm before the storm.
Happy to report things are
Happy to report things are still going VERY well! I was 100% right about her being in a relationship lol but Oh well whatever works and keeps her happy! Hopefully this guy can stick around so it makes my life easier. If he keeps her mouth shut I like him lol