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Ninji's picture

I picked up Skids about an hour ago. I was going though their backpacks to see what homework they have. I found a student loan bill of BM's. I have heard through SO and MIL that BM has a ton of student loans. She was taking the money and not attending classes. She never got her degree.

I really feel like opening it. }:) }:)

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DaizyDuke's picture

I'd open it and then dispose of it! How fun! I'm giddy with excitement for you!!

(I'm also a bitch)

zerostepdrama's picture

A student loan bill is soooooo boring... too bad it wasnt something better. LOL

DaizyDuke's picture

True!

hmmm like a letter from her gyno showing that she tested positive for Syphilis or a notice from the court in regards to her public indecency incident. THAT would be SUPER fun!

zerostepdrama's picture

Oooohhh those are good!

When Ex and I split, he didnt change his address for months... Well he got a DUI (2nd one) and the initial court papers got sent to my (only mine now) apartment. I wanted to open it up soooooooo bad. I knew if I opened them, I would then have to act like they never came and I figured they were important.

I ended up going on the courts website and figuring out he had gotten a DUI.

Idiot was still driving his car with BS... suspended liscence and all.

zerostepdrama's picture

Let me start off by saying, I am nosey as F&ck!

If you open it, what will it accomplish? What will you do with the information? What will you do with the actual bill after you open it? Will you tell anyone what you did?

mommy0104's picture

I really do need to stop being so nosey...a lot of times that's what gets me into trouble..I either need to stop being nosy completely, or learn how to be nosy better lol Smile

mommy0104's picture

Whatever you do with it is your business. All I know, is if I were to do something like this, I'd end up getting in trouble..but then again, I have crappy luck..so do what you gotta do and have fun lol

Ninji's picture

The post mark is Nov...No idea how it ended up in SD's backpack. I look through their bags every weekend.

Shaman29's picture

I was just going to post this very thing.

It's a horrible violation of privacy to open another persons mail.

somedevilishbeauty's picture

i wouldnt open it, Id put it back in a bag with a note on it that said this got mixed up in SD school work,didnt want it to get lost, looks kind of important.

Unfreakingreal's picture

There's no fun in that!

One time I found a bill from SD's school in her bag. I opened it and lo and behold, the bill was for 3 months of LATE tuition and BM was being advised that SD was not allowed to return to school until the bill was paid in full.
The best part was that the bill was for the CORRECT amount and not for the amount she told the courts. DH was paying the ENTIRE tuition by himself instead of HALF like he was supposed to pay. We photocopied the letter and then sealed the original back in the envelope.
We kept it as insurance in case she ever decided to take DH back to CS. He planned to let the judge know that she filed fraudulent papers with the courts. She never took him back to CS again. LOL…
He let it slip once that he knew she was embezzling an extra $200.00 a month in CS, must be why we've never heard from her again! LOL!

Ninji's picture

LOL

trusag's picture

Might be a little paranoid, but what if she is baiting you? She isnt opening it because isnt gonna pay it. She might be testing you though. Just a thought. I wouldnt open it.

Ninji's picture

Now I'm thinking about putting it back with a note as mentioned above. Something like...Found this in SD's bag and sent it back ASAP. Would hate it to go delinquent....Because I know she isn't paying it. MIL gets creditors calling her about BM's student loans. LOL

Shaman29's picture

To you nosy ones....shame on you.

Skid was living with us when H and I married.

I was working 60-75 hours a week and ordered my wedding dress online.

I received the notification the package was delivered to our house.

I left work on time for once, because I was excited about opening up the carton and trying it on.

When I got home, the package had been opened by the skid. SHE saw and touched my wedding dress first. I was devastated. She wasn't excited for me or excited to see the dress. She was just NOSY. Exactly like a few of you.

I returned it, and went with option # two instead and had it delivered to my office.

Shaman29's picture

How is it different??

That package was addressed to me. Not to skid. She had NO business opening it up.

Same with the OP. That envelope clearly has the BM's name on it. She considered being nosy and opening up a letter not address to her.

Same f**king thing.

Ninji's picture

I'm sorry that happened to you but I don't think it is the same thing. I would never open a box with BM's wedding dress in it and finger it. But I do hope she gets married some day and runs off into the sunset. Never to be seen again. Smile

Ninji's picture

I gave the mail back to SD and told her and that it looked like a bill and it belong to BM. She looked at me confused and said, it's old, BM isn't going to open it. I told her it didn't matter it wasn't ours and didn't belong here.

I,m guessing she has seen these bills unopened before and knows BM doesn't want them.