me and dh got married this past monday bm has been acting weird, weirder than normal since she claimed that dh was sexually abusing sd6 last month. Totally not true of course, because just on mothers day weekend,that friday she called dh and asked if he would take sd for the weekend so she could 'have fun'. Then they were supposed to go to court this past tuesday, but dh's lawyer called him on monday and said there was some sort of DHS investigation going on and that it was cancelled. Dh called dhs to see if it involved him and they said no... then bm calls him on wednesday and asked if he would take sd a weekend early (this past friday until the 6th because 'she has been saying she wants to go to your house' and because she has summer school supposedly pretty soon..) she said it would be a late dropoff (takes about an hour to get to the drop off point) it ended up being 1145 PM before we got sd! she said late, but we didnt think THAT late! So we dont know what angle bm is playing at. but we all think something is coming up... He mentioned the investigation to her and she didnt say anything.

Dh's lawyer suggested they try to arrange a mediation soon as well instead of going to court. Dh's lawyer didnt know what the investigation was about either so who knows!? dh's old boss (near where bm lives as well, and all dh's family - about an hour and a half drive from where we live) offered him a job and its about a 99.99% chance hes gonna take it. (his old boss just has to figure out a salary thats suitable) Its gonna hopefully be better in the long run. I have to stay here though to finish my schooling because they dont offer my degree program where he is going to. We've had to be long distance before so its nothing new but now we're married and it kinda sucks that it just came up so sudden, but im happy too because he will be closer to his daughter so hopefully they can have the mediation after he moves there so he can try to get more time with sd then just EOWE.

He would get a free 2 bedroom apt with free electric and a better salary than he has now. It would help him pay off his debts and I would move in with my mother which would help me out not having to pay rent or utilities either.

We have some fun stuff planned for sd this week as well! going to an amusement park and then going to a water park as well! dh has never been to either of them, but i have! this will probably be my last week with them as a family too gotta make the most of it!

I hope whatever bm is hiding isnt going to cost dh more time and money ( on lawyers and missed time with sd ) I hope its just something that involves her and wont affect us but i cant be so sure