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8yo sd on computer waaaay too much...

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Submitted by ohxitsxapril on Sat, 12/22/2012 - 11:36pm

bf just lets her get on there way too much. He doesnt set a time limit or anything. She rarely even asks anymore, just grabs the laptop and fires it up. Sometimes he'll tell her she has to ask, but most the time doesnt say anything. he even wants to buy her(well supposedly its a family present ya right) a tablet so she will stay off his laptop. Thats when you tell her NO. Or that she needs a time limit. He gets her every weekend, and I swear if he doesnt tell her to get off it, she'll be on it for 6+ hours at a time. I just keep telling myself NMKNMP!

bm is crazy! she's still in love with dh

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Submitted by ohxitsxapril on Sun, 06/20/2010 - 11:51pm

im in another town away from dh right now finishing school while he's taking on a new job closer to sd. he was dropping off sd to bm and they had like an hour conversation. she was calling me a bitch the whole time hahaha. dh kept trying to bring back the conversation to sd and custody issues they are about to undergo. its obvious that she is jealous that dh married me and not her. she said that i cant cook or clean like her. hahah whatev she doesnt even know. she wants what i have. Her and dh's relationship was not good at all. they were together for 6ish years and it was bad.

so that is how much $$ she wants...

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Submitted by ohxitsxapril on Thu, 06/10/2010 - 10:34pm

bleh sorry about this entry its so scattered right now. im so worried and out of it! so dh has been trying to get a job closer to sd with his old company for about a month now. they finally agreed to the terms his old boss set out and tomorrow he is finalizing paper work. its going to be about 120 miles away from me though Sad just for two more years until i finish my degree program because they dont have it where he is located.

she wants more money!? i dont think so!

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Submitted by ohxitsxapril on Wed, 06/09/2010 - 5:41pm

bm and dh are going to try to have either a mediation or a court date soon to finalize the custody order and he found out today from his lawyer that bm is asking for a few thousand 'for all length of time this has taken' BS!!! His lawyer is going to send him all her requests pretty soon so he can see for himself. but if anything, DH should be the one asking for money from her! If she wouldnt have kept sd away from him for 6 months he wouldnt of ever had to hire a lawyer to try and get visitation!

poor sd :(

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Submitted by ohxitsxapril on Thu, 06/03/2010 - 9:33pm

poor sd Sad she's sick right now. She woke up this morning with a headache, i thought it might have been from last nights events and her falling asleep crying. Gave her some medicine and she felt better. We went to the water park and had fun. Then came home and sd and us took a nap for about 2 hours. sd woke up with a headache again and she was crying because it hurt so bad and it didnt go away so gave her some medicine again.

kinda bad day with SD

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Submitted by ohxitsxapril on Wed, 06/02/2010 - 10:33pm

i got off work at 3 today. We took SD 6 to an amusement park yesterday she had alot of fun. We are supposed to go to a water park tomorrow as well. but sd didnt take a nap when she was supposed to, while dh was asleep she made a mess of stuff. So she wasnt allowed to play any video games (kid friendly dont worry lol). She wasn't listening very well to anything dh was saying. We had chicken and usually she likes it but for whatever reason she didnt feel the need to eat it. She had already been in the corner several times today.

not sure what is going to happen next!?

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Submitted by ohxitsxapril on Sun, 05/30/2010 - 2:06am

me and dh got married this past monday Smile bm has been acting weird, weirder than normal since she claimed that dh was sexually abusing sd6 last month. Totally not true of course, because just on mothers day weekend,that friday she called dh and asked if he would take sd for the weekend so she could 'have fun'.

Bm claiming abuse.

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Submitted by ohxitsxapril on Fri, 04/23/2010 - 7:01pm

its supposed to be dh's weekend with SD6. Traffic was bad so he texted her at 5:30 saying he would be late (pick up is at 6-meet at a halfway point, we live 100ish miles from them) she said "well my lawyer advised me not to come call your lawyer" he was like wtf, thank God his lawyer was in so he called him and his lawyer told him that she is claiming abuse. he said something like he didnt know if it was sexual or not, but he would call her lawyer on monday and find out more and let him know. Stupida** BM wasnt even gonna tell him, we would of shown up at 6 and be like wtf???

Question: Do you think a judge will grant this?

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Submitted by ohxitsxapril on Fri, 04/16/2010 - 8:38pm

I know a judge probably will not grant this, but just wondering DH's chances ( he thinks it is pretty slim too ). We live about 98 miles away from SD6. We meet at a halfway point with BM EOWE. Its an hour to drive there and an hour back. Just wondering if a judge will grant DH to have every weekend? Or if BM was okay with DH having SD every weekend, if a judge would grant it..? Just wondering what you guys thought thanks!

Question: When will you/did you let your kids/skids sit in the front seat?

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Submitted by ohxitsxapril on Sun, 04/11/2010 - 11:59am

I am asking this question because DH has let SD sit in the front seat with him. She is 6 years old and very small! I already told him that no child of mine is going to be sitting in the front seat till they are atleast 9 or 10 (thats how old I was when my mom let me and my brother start sitting in the front-even though it says on most car visors no child under 12 should sit in the front seat) Im scared for her safety if he were to ever get in an accident. My friend got into an accident and the air bag deployed. She had scratches on her arms and bruises. She still has the scars too.

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