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Oldfool's picture

Stinky came over to see her grandfather today. She is now 14. Said she was going to KFC to get a meal. Should have taken no longer than 30 minutes.. 

1 HOUR Later.. No Stinky returned..  My partner was worried. He went to the KFC  but no Stinky. He came back. I told him to phone her. He did  

He physically went to get her and eventually found her. She said she was round the back. I told him that if she was not at the LOCAL KFC there could be problems as it was getting dark. 

He came back and Stinky was with him.  

I don't believe Stinky one iota. She has turned into a clone of her mother. The mother STILL pongs. 

As I said not my circus problem or monkey.   

 

 

 

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Oldfool's picture

I just don't know as I think she was lying to her grandfather. The mother STILL REEKS and stinky still stinks but they don't come to my house very often. 

I use incense to get rid of their stench and still wash soft furnishings they have used. 

They are however not my problem any more and I basically keep my distance. 

My life is much happier now But I will never forgive the disrespect showed to me over the years. 

 

 

 

Rags's picture

and forbid them to sit on any upholstered furniture. If they stay the night, make them sleep on an inflatable smooth plastic matress.

If you cannot completely purge them from your home, make it as easy on you and as ass baring on them as you can.

Stench is not something anyone should tolerate from others in their home.  Stank is an assault and a risk to the heallth of everyone else in addition to being detrimental to the health of the stanky.

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Oldfool's picture

Are not welcome in my home... Nuff said due to their past behaviour. 

Harry's picture

For her an adult to live like that.  And having her kids living the same way.  She needs professional help.  She the roll model for stinky.   Remember your SO had a relationship with Stinky mom.  So hate to say. SO has low standards.  He was rolling around with her.  
There is nothing you can do.. your SO must understand this is not normal.  He one needs to get Stinky professional help.  Two visitation should be away from your home. Until she doesn't smell.  
Three. What does SO invision for his DD.  She going to lead a life or rejection. No one.. employers..friends..co workers will put up with her.

SO hi hurting his DD by doing nothing.. that not parenting 

Oldfool's picture

I do not see any way of them EVER staying overnight in my home as they KNOW I DON'T WANT THEM as they stink, are rude and I'm fed up of them.

Stinky's mum no longer works for the food shop.  She got fired.. She now works for a retail store.

When she comes to my home the bad smell lingers. I don't mention the stinkness anymore it ain't worth it... 

My partner is conflict avoid and sees them away from my home... Good riddance!!!!!