I am so glad I got my daughter and myself out of that goat flip. We are so much happier in our own place
SO visits me at my home and I sporadically visit him at his home when sgirls are not around usually
SO and I just returned from an Epic trip to Vegas and Grand Canyon. WE are doing ok, He and his goat flip family and nuttburger EX are not.
Just for your reading enjoyment I thought I would share what is new with the sgirls.

SD20(21 in 2 mos) is in her jr year at the state university. Lives in an apt with her boyfriend from HS. Drives car SO purchased for her and carries insurance and plates it for her. She comes to see him a couple times a year when car is in need of repairs.

SD 17 is a HS Senior in her private (paid for solely by SO) school. She left BM's at the end of Jr year and stayed with SO's parents for a couple weeks until BM threw a fit and said she had to go live with SO or she(bm) would call her SD17 in as a runaway. SD17 moved in with SO and yep, BM called her in as a runaway anyway, BM called the school, went psycho on school counselor and social worker. BM sent text to SD17 that she "will F#*k your life up little girl" and the counselor and social worker from school saw these text.

SD17 stayed with SO til end of Jr year and up til July, then moved back to her mom when BM kicked out SD15 and dropped SD15 off at SO's work at 10pm on July 7th with a garbage bag of clothes and mismatched shoes.
BM then bought SD17 a new iphone and begged her to come back (which she did) cause she needed a sitter for the rest of the summer for her illegitimate twins with the married guy she was dating in 2012.

Anyhow, SO now has SD15 who btw is pregnant ( which is why I suspect BM dumped her on SO, because SD15 refused to do what BM wanted her too and decided she is keeping her child) SO has to go to the private catholic school and they are going to let SD15 continue on there and make accomodations for her. But they had to notify cps because it turns out the boyfriend is 20 yrs old. SO files for emergency hearing for custody of SD15.

Fast fwd from July to now and SO actually won(dunno if I'd call that a win) custody of SD17(who wont move back to him) and SD15,Because it was brought to SO's attention that BM was letting the boyfriend20 spend the nite with SD15 in order to get her to agree to babysitting, AND BM was using SD15 as her personal bartender to make her Jager Bombs and such. SO had all the incriminating text printed out from SD15s phone(regarding boyfriend) and His phone(bm rants about how she is giving him the evil brat bla bla bla) the judge would have given him stwins 11 if he had worded it correctly on the motion. Now he has to file another motion to get them.

The newest and latest info is SO and SD15 got called to police station because the boyfriend got picked up in a stolen from a burglary van and there were letters and an ultrasound photo in the van from SD15. Turns out the guy may be 28, Police are trying to find out his real name, he is a refugee from South Africa, has two other girls pregnant now too. AND had a warrant for the burglary with an injury cause by a knife, and they have been looking for him for a while.....
Life time movie material, huh?

So so so glad I got out of that home.. SO is in complete shock by all of this. He shouldn't be, he knows how and who his EX is.