Not this again
DH calls Puke last night and when he comes back in the family room he tells me that BM is saying Puke can't come here unless she brings the dog. Now I wouldn't put that past BM but my gut says Puke doesn't want to come this weekend and using that as an excuse. DH of course thinks it's all BM and I just let him. I don't know how many times I said yeah or hmmm.
DH told Puke that now wasn't a good time for the dog to come. Now he will never tell her straight up that the dog is not allowed here but he has made that clear to me. Saying no this time is a big thing for him to do because he has in the past said he'd think about it.
This usually means Puke won't end up coming but not holding my breath just yet.
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I was planning on letting DH
I was planning on letting DH continue to sqerm and stress every time it's brought up. If he's happy going through this then who am I to take that away from him.
I'm not changing my plans. DH will probably want to help with the vanity which is fine. I will just blast pics all over Facebook thanking him for his help.
It's just an excuse for them
It's just an excuse for them both. BM doesn't want to spend 4 hours driving and Puke probably doesn't want to be away from her BF and friends. No doubt something was planned she doesn't want to miss.
It's a non issue when BM
It's a non issue when BM wants a break from Puke or vice versa but when neither want to be inconvenienced it's suddenly an issue.
Oh my God, her and this damn
Oh my God, her and this damn dog!
By now your DH should have figured out it is just an excuse and tell her that the least she can do is be HONEST.
My SD cancelled plenty on DH but she was always honest about it. Sure, it hurt him but at least he wasn't manipulated into thinking HE was making the choice by not giving in to demands and ultimatums.
DH wants to believe it's BM
DH wants to believe it's BM keeping her from coming and not puke's choice. He wants the fantasy not the reality.
Puke is enrolled in online
Puke is enrolled in online school so is home during the day. I know she goes out with her friends and probably sleeps over. Like I said it's just an excuse because Puke doesn't want to come.